bonoman
Refugee
Well something has happened(or had happened and i just found out about it). You know that thing that happens in your life that changes the way you look at life forever?
Well i meet this girl in high school(please dont stop reading its not that kind of story)anyways, we knew eachother to say hi and bye. She started at my work about 3 months ago and ever since then we have become best of friends. You know that friend that you abosoulty thank God for letting you meet? We have become a little more then just friends, but thats besides the point.
After a night out at the bar we always sit in our cars and talk for a few hours. Its like therphy we just can tell each other anything. Her family is wealthy, they own a car dealership outside of town and a resort in Britsh Columbia. Her dad lives were the dealership is and whenever he came up in a conversation she would turn quite and retracted. Last night we had one such talk and we got on the subject of her dad. She obviuslly didnt like talking about it and started to tear up. I was very concerned.
She really didnt want to tell me what was bugging her. I kind of forced it outof her. She said the worst thing ever had happened to her. She said she could never say it. She said think of the worst and then think what could be even worse. At that point she really had me scared. I really care about her and was hating see her like this. It started to click. She hates her dad. He lives out of town and only is home every second weekend.
I dont know how to say it but her dad raped her for 3 years.
Breath.
I couldnt believe it. Huh. what.
She told me the story. When she was 11 it started. (shes now 18) When she was 12 her mom walked in on it happening!!! Her mom said it would stop. 2 months later it started again. For 2 more years it went on till she told her mom it was happening again. Her mom told him to move away.
Her mom told him to move away. Thats it. Period. She is still married to him. Still goes and sees him.
This girl who is the best person i have ever meet had to be put through 3 years of constent rape while her mother sat there and did nothing. She was in grade 9 when it ended. To this day only me her and her parents know this. She has 2 older bro and sis. She doesnt know what to do. I dont know what to do. Her mom is moving out to the dealership with that bastard!
She has nowhere to go. Her parents want to buy her a condo. She is so strong she refused and wants me to move out with her. I just cant i have school and bills.
I have two questions.
1) How should i deal with this. Should i do what she wants or do something she is too afraid to do herself. I seriuosly want to kill this piece of shit.
2) Should i move out with her? I want to but i just dont have the money.
I have never been so disgusted in my life. I have never been so angry. So mad. So helpless. So, just so damn pissed off. Who the fuck is he to steal her life away from her and then just shove it under the carpet. Her mom is just as bad. How could someone not protect their kid. How could someone stay with a man that would do this. I look at the small problems people bitch and complain about and then i look at her and the shit she has gone through by herself!!! It puts everything into perspective.
These kinds of people should be killed.
Thanks for reading and say a prayer for her and all the other people in the world that are going through this.
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Running to Stand Still-"you gotta cry without weeping, talk without speaking, scream without raising your voice."
"we're not burning out we're burning up...we're the loudest folk band in the world!"-Bono
Well i meet this girl in high school(please dont stop reading its not that kind of story)anyways, we knew eachother to say hi and bye. She started at my work about 3 months ago and ever since then we have become best of friends. You know that friend that you abosoulty thank God for letting you meet? We have become a little more then just friends, but thats besides the point.
After a night out at the bar we always sit in our cars and talk for a few hours. Its like therphy we just can tell each other anything. Her family is wealthy, they own a car dealership outside of town and a resort in Britsh Columbia. Her dad lives were the dealership is and whenever he came up in a conversation she would turn quite and retracted. Last night we had one such talk and we got on the subject of her dad. She obviuslly didnt like talking about it and started to tear up. I was very concerned.
She really didnt want to tell me what was bugging her. I kind of forced it outof her. She said the worst thing ever had happened to her. She said she could never say it. She said think of the worst and then think what could be even worse. At that point she really had me scared. I really care about her and was hating see her like this. It started to click. She hates her dad. He lives out of town and only is home every second weekend.
I dont know how to say it but her dad raped her for 3 years.
Breath.
I couldnt believe it. Huh. what.
She told me the story. When she was 11 it started. (shes now 18) When she was 12 her mom walked in on it happening!!! Her mom said it would stop. 2 months later it started again. For 2 more years it went on till she told her mom it was happening again. Her mom told him to move away.
Her mom told him to move away. Thats it. Period. She is still married to him. Still goes and sees him.
This girl who is the best person i have ever meet had to be put through 3 years of constent rape while her mother sat there and did nothing. She was in grade 9 when it ended. To this day only me her and her parents know this. She has 2 older bro and sis. She doesnt know what to do. I dont know what to do. Her mom is moving out to the dealership with that bastard!
She has nowhere to go. Her parents want to buy her a condo. She is so strong she refused and wants me to move out with her. I just cant i have school and bills.
I have two questions.
1) How should i deal with this. Should i do what she wants or do something she is too afraid to do herself. I seriuosly want to kill this piece of shit.
2) Should i move out with her? I want to but i just dont have the money.
I have never been so disgusted in my life. I have never been so angry. So mad. So helpless. So, just so damn pissed off. Who the fuck is he to steal her life away from her and then just shove it under the carpet. Her mom is just as bad. How could someone not protect their kid. How could someone stay with a man that would do this. I look at the small problems people bitch and complain about and then i look at her and the shit she has gone through by herself!!! It puts everything into perspective.
These kinds of people should be killed.
Thanks for reading and say a prayer for her and all the other people in the world that are going through this.
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Running to Stand Still-"you gotta cry without weeping, talk without speaking, scream without raising your voice."
"we're not burning out we're burning up...we're the loudest folk band in the world!"-Bono