Originally posted by melon:
I think the idea of "desensitization" is silly, to be quite honest. We were told for years how desensitized Americans were to violence, due to the media, and that was just plain silly. September 11th came and played out just like any Hollywood action film, and we were horrified like anyone else.
The same, perhaps, goes with "sex" in the network media. We are now being told that all these young people have sex, because of the media. Quite simply, our collective world past was quite more sexual than we'd like to ever imagine--but we've done the fatal mistake of romanticizing it. Honestly, we are no different than the people of our past emotionally; it's just that each generation sees things through different proverbial lenses.
Heck, to be quite honest, the only thing I would blame the media for is revisionism and romanticism in the media, making us somehow believe we are so much more evil and lushier now than ever (which is not true). It's distortion that I dislike, whether it be the stereotype that males are all stupid and think solely with their penis; the stereotype that blacks all live in ghettos, are street-wise, and have learning problems; the stereotype that "perfect people" are well-endowed and stupid; the stereotype that college students are all drunk, high, and lushes; the stereotype that all religious are reactionary fanatics with repression issues; the stereotype that all gays have no morals, sleep with every guy in sight, have lisps, are effeminate, and atheists--I'm angry with all that. Unfortunately, it's not solely the media that has "gone too far" societally. Every aspect of society must take some burden of the blame here.
I'm not here to point fingers and pretend I'm all high and mighty now, though. If anyone here read the racist thread, they'll realize I have my own fits of irrationalism. "Victoria's Secret" is only a reflection of latent stereotypes we all know one way or another, and advertising executives are taught to exploit these deep-seated skewed perceptions. Despite the fact you complain all about it, the commercial is successful, because it has 1) made you remember the product, and 2) sold you an image that is favorable for their product. "Victoria's Secret" is all about sex, so they are showing you sex. Now people, when thinking of a place for sexy lingerie for sex, will think "Victoria's Secret" solely on their ad campaigns. They've succeeded greatly, to be honest.
Melon