For Parents of Preteens..Of # items what ia THE WORST thing you can do?

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1. Allow a 6 and 8 yr old to use the phrase-'shut up' sarcastically w/o malice?
or
2. As a parent explain to them them that the first time you had sexual intercourse was when you were a pre teen at 12 years of age.
or
3. Explain to them after allowing them to listen to Shaggy's- "Banging on the Bathroom Floor-it wasnt me"- the meaning of the lyrics to this current rap song..what it rEALLY means in graphic detail..
Please pick the wORSE thing you can do as a parent of a child- 6 and 8 yrs..

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3.
thanks

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