joyfulgirl
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Guilty of capital murder.
Originally posted by joyfulgirl:
Guilty of capital murder.
Exactly right. People were warning him he should get her some help, including her sister and their minister.Originally posted by Peaseblossom:
Yay. I feel that she will be held accountable for what she's done, but wish that her husband would take some responsibility as well. Yates' doctors told her not to have any more children because of her mental state. The BOTH ignored the Dr's advice, not to mention their family's advice, and had two more children. In a way, by having more children and not treating his wife, he should have seen this coming. Maybe I'm alone here, but although I feel tremendous sympathy for him, I don't think he's completely innocent in this situation.
Originally posted by melon:
Not only does Yates need severe mental health care, but she poses absolutely no threat to society to warrant a prison term, not to mention the death penalty.
Originally posted by sulawesigirl4:
dream wanderer, you are unfortunately correct. Growing up in a missionary family, I remember with perfect clarity what it was like to have my mother suffering from clinical depression for years...and having people tell her to her face that she just needed to "trust God more" or some bullshit like that. She was physically sick for a long time and no doctors could diagnose her. It was really awful. Finally, we came back to the States and she got help via counselling and some medication. Now, she's better than I remember her being in YEARS and my parents were able to go back to their mission work. As it was, had my father listened to the naysayers about psychology being "un-Christian", my mom would still be sick and they would have quit their jobs. If anything pisses me off within the religious community, this is the major thing.
Originally posted by 80sU2isBest:
But, be careful when you throw out the phrase "trust God more or some bullshit like that". I don't think we ever trust God enough, no matter what our condition. There is always room to grow.
Sula, I hope you know I was not talking about your mother's situation when I called into question your statement about "trusting God...bullshit". I was just applying that to life in general.Originally posted by sulawesigirl4:
For goodness sake, there was even one woman that had the gall to suggest my mom was being oppressed by demons. Thank God I wasn't in the room at the time because I think I would have decked her. Talk about making a sick person feel infinitely worse.
Granted, I probably sound rather opinionated on this subject, but it is one in which I have had very personal experience and a good amount of run-ins with the kind of attitudes I described above.
So in conclusion, I wouldn't say that trusting God is bullshit. But telling a person suffering from mental illness that somehow it is their fault and if they just "trusted God" enough they would be fine...THAT is bullshit. Quite frankly, I think that if we gave each other more grace in day to day life and nurtured each other as members of the body of Christ, quite a lot of potential stress victims and depression victims would not end up in that state. In the mission community, I know of several organizations that have woken up to this fact and now have trained psychologists and counselors spend time with the various missionaries on the field at least once a year to talk through the stress of their job and any issues that might be arising. Rather than wait until the missionary is burnt out and ready to quit, this proactive approach seems to me to be a much more caring and intelligent way to go about things: recognizing that we as humans are going to need help and that we are vulnerable to emotional and mental suffering. Writing those things off as spiritual weakness seems to me to show a complete lack of understanding what "carrying each others burdens" is all about.
so those are my thoughts.
[This message has been edited by sulawesigirl4 (edited 03-14-2002).]
Originally posted by Achtung Bubba:
But a woman drowns her five children, including one she had to chase around the house? Well, she MUST be insane, so let's not punish her.
*snip*
(Very odd: you concieve, and you can kill it. Let it be born, and you must take care of it. You don't feed it properly, beat the child, or don't send it to school, and you should be tried for child abuse. BUT if you MURDER the child, God forbid a court of law convict you of murder.)
Originally posted by popkidu2:
db9 I would've expected a more intelligent comment than "let her fry" from you.
mother to methodically drown her five children..
Popkid-
Wasnt intending to offend.
Lets not forget who the real victims are here. Mrs Yates is NOT A VICTIM.
Before she even drowned the first child she was 'banking' on sympathy like this.
Your perspective may change after you have little ones of your own.
Again, not intending to offend.
Your Friend-
Diamond
let her fry.
Originally posted by 80sU2isBest:
About Andrea Yates, I think that she was maybe possessed. But she may have gone insane. However, in my mind, that doesn't lessen what punishment she should receive - life in prison.
Every man is responsible for his own actions. If she were possessed by demons, that's sad. But she still murdered her 5 children. And I don't care if you lock her up in a prison or a mental hospital. The point to me is to get her away from society. Forever.Originally posted by melon:
How ironic. Assuming she was possessed (which I doubt), that would make her not responsible for her actions. Yet, you still think that she should spend life in prison even if that were true.
The murders were wrong, yes, but the signs were there all along, and the husband just gets to go free and play off public sympathy. I'm sorry. However, I have a feeling that if the jury was allowed to know that she would have ended up in a mental institution likely for the rest of her life on a verdict of "not guilty by reason of insanity" (prohibited from being mentioned to the jury by the Texas Constitution, though), I have a feeling that the verdict may have been different.
Melon
Originally posted by melon:
[She]poses no risk to the public.