Soul Always
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- Nov 15, 2003
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This has been on my mind since last night. I've already concluded that I prefer men as friends, but last night just showed me why. I was watching the Bachelor, which I do, and I saw why I don't have many women friends (if any)...when women get together in a group there ALWAYS has to be someone who is a black sheep. Every single flippin' time. For instance, I've watched two Bachelors and both times there was a black sheep among them.
I ALWAYS relate to the girl who is the black sheep and say that I like them. For instance, the black sheep last time was LeAnn. I related and liked her. The black sheep now is Trish. I relate, and like her...and I get fed up and irritated by the other girls.
I am always the black sheep in any group of women I've ever been in, including U2 Bono folders!!! Women must always have someone to come together against and hate. I do not know why. It must have something to do with never being content or satisfied, picking at themselves, picking on each other.
I love men so much more. They never have these problems. I've watched a Bachelorette, too, and the men didn't agree but they worked through them, didn't hold grudges, didn't worry much what the others were doing...etc.
I watched the episode last night and thought "no wonder I don't like women as friends." That, and they're so shallow, and boring, and flighty, and talk about stupid things...on and on and on.
I think what is really bringing this on is that I have to go on a "girls' night out" tonight with my mother-in-law and sister-in-laws!!! *grimace* I've forgotten about it twice now and started to make other plans because I'm NOT looking forward to it. What thing of interest could they possibly talk about? I'll smile, be polite, feel my eyes and my interest straying.
Funny, in both of the cases of the girls who were the black sheeps in this show, neither of them had come to make friends and get all girly-girl, either. In fact, stated that they prefer men as friends, too.
I ALWAYS relate to the girl who is the black sheep and say that I like them. For instance, the black sheep last time was LeAnn. I related and liked her. The black sheep now is Trish. I relate, and like her...and I get fed up and irritated by the other girls.
I am always the black sheep in any group of women I've ever been in, including U2 Bono folders!!! Women must always have someone to come together against and hate. I do not know why. It must have something to do with never being content or satisfied, picking at themselves, picking on each other.
I love men so much more. They never have these problems. I've watched a Bachelorette, too, and the men didn't agree but they worked through them, didn't hold grudges, didn't worry much what the others were doing...etc.
I watched the episode last night and thought "no wonder I don't like women as friends." That, and they're so shallow, and boring, and flighty, and talk about stupid things...on and on and on.
I think what is really bringing this on is that I have to go on a "girls' night out" tonight with my mother-in-law and sister-in-laws!!! *grimace* I've forgotten about it twice now and started to make other plans because I'm NOT looking forward to it. What thing of interest could they possibly talk about? I'll smile, be polite, feel my eyes and my interest straying.
Funny, in both of the cases of the girls who were the black sheeps in this show, neither of them had come to make friends and get all girly-girl, either. In fact, stated that they prefer men as friends, too.
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