Well Cleasai, no need to apologise for your true opinion. Anyone is entitled to their opinion. It was of course your original post, not the edited one, that my replies were to.
Having said all that, maybe 'some people' do push all the wrong buttons for you. I know that by that you mean Bear. And I'm sorry, but Bear is a friend as far as I'm concerned. I will defend him if I feel he's being squeezed out yet again. Reason being that I think most if not all of what he posts is meant to be taken in the spirit of humour. It's not always funny, and to some maybe it's never funny.
But I'll tell you something, I don't find someone like, say, Salome, either witty or funny. Ever. But I don't ask for his threads to be shut down. I just accept it as part of the landscape.