I just got pissed because I got an email from her saying that she won't come up for Thanksgiving or Christmas. I understand thanksgiving cuz she has classes...but she said she had to spend this Christmas with her bf's family....the problem is she spends every Christmas with his family...I really shouldn't be mad at her, when it is really his family calling the shots. I guess his family gives him a hard time if he doesn't spend every holiday with them. Last Thanksgiving my sis and her bf came up here and I guess his sisters are still fuming over that.