IO: My BF and I will be living together soon

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When he moves in, save all the boxes from his stuff so he can build a cave out of them. It'll be hours of fun and will satisfy his need for a sacred man-space into which he can crawl when he is having male PMS, not to mention that guys like to build stuff.

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obviously I am kidding. mostly.
 
U2Girl1978 said:
Any advice you'd like to give me? :wink:
Depending on the level of cleanliness your BF generally achieves, let's just say I hope you like science & horticulture.... :huh:

(As in: things growing in the fridge, stuff sprouting in bath/shower, suspicious odors emanating from his shoes and clothes, etc. etc. etc. Just remember this: Guys are icky!) :lol:
 
I moved in with my boyfriend earlier this year. He is 30 years old and has never lived with a significant other. He is stubborn and set in his ways...and I lived with my dad, who basically allowed me to do what I want (whatever show on TV, whatever radio station, etc), even if it didn't exactly suit him. So when we first started living together...there were some rough patches. :yikes: It was also hard for me because I didn't feel like I had my own space anymore, like I did back home with my bedroom.

In summary...compromise, understanding, respect, and patience.

Or just eat his brains if you don't get your own way. :angry:
 
expect changes.....

establishing your boundries with each other can lead to huge fights....which are soon forgotten:hug: but they still suck:madspit:

be considerate of the other persons habits, you cannot change them

be honest

:hmm:.....

share household chores

compromise...compromise..compromise..even when you hate thier decoration taste:| :wink:

forgive and forget

do random acts of kindness around the house

don't lose your sense of humor:up:

don't hog all the hot water:wink:

goodluck Jules:hug:
 
My husband's apartment came complete with a dirt floor when I met him.:yikes: I was eventually able to change at least this habit. He also had what I thought was a copper stove. It was white. I'll keep you in my prayers.
 
good luck & god bless...

no firearms in the house for at least 9 months :lol:

seriously, if you two want to be together you will work through any "adjustments" needed to be happy.

ahh, young love...
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yes, it is normal to be nervous. caron and i have been contemplating living together for the last couple of months. :yikes:

it is getting closer but no date has been set yet...

Compromise and communication! Very important for couples. :D
 
Be sure to have lots of blankets and pillows so that you don't fight over them. Otherwise, practice saying this:

"Your pillow pilfering for your own personal purposes is properly pissing me off!"
 
Mr. BAW said:
If you can honestly say that you fart in front of each other, then you're good to go....if you're going outside or holding it, forget it, you're not ready! :up:

girls don't do that Mr. BAW:angry:


they don't poop either:shh:




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