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Old 09-04-2001, 07:57 PM   #1
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I need your advice....

I find myself really missing someone, a.k.a., I'm "love sick." The thing is that we somewhat lost touch over the summer break, not because we hate each other now, but, for some reason or another, we kind of faded. There's really no one person or thing to blame for why it happened.

The thing is that I want to get back into contact--I still have an e-mail address I can write to--but I'm at a complete loss for words. I honestly don't know what to say! Yes, I'm at a loss for words...a rarity in this forum. I guess I want to show that I still care, but not to sound desperate (which I'm not) or needy (which I'm furthest from). I mean, life really isn't complete unless you have someone to share it with, right?

Anyway, if any of you here have been in a similar situation and/or can offer advice, I would really appreciate it. Thanks...

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Old 09-04-2001, 08:11 PM   #2
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Chances are she's feeling exactly the same way. 'Just do it'. Just write a 'nice' neutral email, what you've been up to and stuff, just maybe one sentence saying you miss her or whatever (not too heavy), just friendly. I really do bet she's feeling the same, missing you to.


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Old 09-04-2001, 08:11 PM   #3
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Just be honest and direct like you were in your post. It's worth a try, anyway.

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Old 09-04-2001, 09:00 PM   #4
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Just for it! Ask how they're doing, what they've been up to, etc. Things should breeze along after that!

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Old 09-04-2001, 09:01 PM   #5
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I agree with everyone. But you know her, do what you think she'd like.

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Old 09-04-2001, 11:25 PM   #6
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Thanks kids. I knew I could count on you. I kinda knew this all ahead of time, but sometimes, especially when in love, you need the simplest of things spelled out to you.

I will compose something worthy of Melon...

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Old 09-05-2001, 03:18 PM   #7
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It is strangely curious how certain posts just disappear in thin air...

Regardless, Slane...I never forget.

Thanks to those who have been supportive, and a resounding 'bite me' to the one who wasn't.

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Old 09-05-2001, 04:16 PM   #8
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Melon...pay no attention to those with no heart.

*sticks tongue out at Slane*

This place is good for advice cos your amongst friends (mostly)
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Old 09-06-2001, 02:35 AM   #9
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Good luck melon!



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