Check this out, excert from spin magazine... btw, just as a side note, Pearl jam is also one of my favorite bands, although I can't say I really liked Riot Act that much except for I am mine
you can see the full article at
http://pearljamhistory.no.sapo.pt/PJArticles_Interviews_08-xx-01_-_spin_magazine_ten_past_ten.htm
Spin Magazine, August 2001
Ten Past Ten
By Eric Weisbard with Jessica Letkemann, Ann Powers, Chris Norris, William Van Meter, and Will Hermes
VEDDER: Maybe I wasn't ready for attention to be placed on me, you know? Also I think it was the practical things that I wasn't ready for, or the legal things that I wasn't ready for. I never knew that someone could put you on the cover of a magazine without asking you, that they could sell magazines and make money and you didn't have a copyright on your face or something.
WILSON: Eddie was seeking the advice of Bono a lot. After the shows you'd see Bono and Eddie over in a corner in deep discussion. And they would go off together and stay at Bono's place, and they would have stayed up and had some wine and really talked about the business and sort of argued about it.
BONO: I seem to always take the role of scolding them for not wanting to be pop stars. I think they suffer me with some grace. Anyone in their right mind would do [what Pearl Jam have done]; this is actually how to have a life, how to keep your dignity.