AcrobatMan
Rock n' Roll Doggie
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1) Flirt to female strangers
2) Flirt to female colleagues
etc etc
Anyone
1) Flirt to female strangers
2) Flirt to female colleagues
etc etc
Anyone
MissVelvetDress_75 said:be a gentleman.
whenhiphopdrovethebigcars said:Go Acrobat Go!
You just go up to them and talk to them. That´s the simple way.
The complicated way is: first she has to invite you with her eyes to go up and talk to her. When you catch her looking at you twice, and probably turning away when you look back at her, that´s an invitation - it only isn´t if you can realize from her body language that she doesn´t like you, meaning if she turns away kinda "disgusted" and talks to another man. If her eyes are inviting you, you are invited. That doesn´t mean she stares at you.
It depends what of all your positive sides you wanna show her. You´re a good looking man, so there´s no need to buy her a drink. In fact, beware of buying drinks for girls in a bar. It´s different if you meet her on the street, at work, in a museum or whatever. Then you can ask her if you can take her for a coffee. And this one you pay. Because it´s your first date with that person, and at a first date the man pays. But like I said, if you meet her in a bar, it´s not your first date yet. So you engage in some nice conversation. Which ultimately leads to you asking her out.
Tell interesting things about yourself, but not too much. Listen what she has to say. Ask her questions aso that she sees you´re interested in her. A little compliment from time to time doesn´t hurt. Make a specialized compliment like" nice jewels" or "mmh your perfume smells like a flower" (use that one to get near to hear neck and smell) or, in case of a punk/ gothic girl "nice piercing, where did you get it?"... "isn´t that dangerous?" etc. etc.
Anyway, if you play it like me, don´t ask her questions. Let her come to you, let her do the work, take a little of distance in between. Thats a secret female trick, mind you! You know that situation when you´re talking to a girl and she says "oh, it was nice talking to you, but now I gotta go-oooo" - I´ll tell you what, the person who is left at the table alone, in most cases it´s the man, will feel a little sorry. Just a little, in the sense of "oh now I talked to this beautiful lady, and now she´s gone, and I am here alone, hmm nice girl.. what a pity she had to go so soon".
Turn the table. You take a little distance. When you´ve been talking with her for 20 minutes, or talked and danced for an hour, you are the one to say "Oh I gotta go... I´m so sorry.. it was nice meeting you, listen give me your phone number" - then when you got her phone no., you walk away, and maybe she will feel sorry - just a little though. That´s good for you, because she will want to meet you another time. And you will give her that possibility by actively calling her, asking her when she has time. Only call her once, though. if she doesn´t have time, skip it and go for the next one. If you wanna lay it hot, tell her you really fell in love with her.
But for the distance-taking trick you have to know the ropes... she has to stay interested in you, you know. Just start the simple way: just go up to them and talk to them.
MissVelvetDress_75 said:and make sure to remain a gentleman after the 1st, 2nd, 3rd, 4th dates and any time after that.
DaveC said:
Always treat her like you're absolutely honoured beyond belief that she would actually grant you the privilege of taking her out,
MissVelvetDress_75 said:BUT BLUE ROOM I THOUGHT YOU WANTED TO GET MARRIED AFTER ONE DATE!!!!!!!!!
MissVelvetDress_75 said:well if I want a guy to get dirrty with me on the dance floor he will know.