On the whole Saints thing... you're both right. The Saints players deserve everything that comes their way, and it is absurd that one person has the power of judge, jury and executioner.
So you should direct your hate towards the people who gave that person said power... the players, when they failed to collectively bargain a better system for themselves.
Liking or disliking Goodell is besides the point on this one... the players complaining about Roger's power comes off as a bunch of whiny dopes. It wasn't as if Goodell hasn't acted like this his entire time as commissioner... so if the players really had an issue with the system, they should have said something about it, ya know, when they were collectively bargaining the system.
As for the skins and cowboys getting fined for not breaking any rules? Yea, it obviously was collusion. After all, Goodell, and the entire league office, work on behalf of all of the owners. So all of the owners made an agreement not to do something... the two league owners most likely to do it anyways did it anyways... with stunning success I might add... and the other owners were pissed over it, so they had their pit bull attack for them.
Is it collusion? Yea, it was. Should it probably have just been dropped, especially considering the spending over the cap didn't lead to any sort of success for either team? Yea, it should have been. But it wasn't, because the other owners, not Goodell personally, wanted it to be done. So it was.
The legality of it? Meh... shady at best. But it happened so it was obviously legal. But if I were a fan of either of those two teams, and thank god I'm not, I'd probably direct my hate towards those who you already sorta hate anyways, the Rooney's and the Mara's of the world. But not Rooney Mara. She's hot.
Bottom line is the league office, commissioner included, works on behalf of the league owners. They don't do anything without it first being the will of the group. All of Goodell's crackdowns on player behavior... the rule changes... the supposed emphasis on player safety? They're the ideas of the league owners, not of one man.
Oh... and comparing the Saints to the Penn State scandal is asinine. So whoever came up with that one? Yea... no.