diamond
ONE love, blood, life
i think i know that fella
Klaus said:sure they can - do you think that we are animals who can't controll themself?
TripThruUreWires said:I don't know, the guys i hang out with typically divide their time between hanging out at nudie bars and viewing hardcore pornography on the net; if it helps, my best guy friend's favorite shirt reads: The Sex Psychic Said You're Gonna Do Me.
diamond said:See, I told u somost ladies always want the freak sooner or later.db3
Headache in a Suitcase said:
you just explained the last 4 years of my life my friend... only without the part about still being friends... ahhh being single sucks... i think i should reopen the singleton's thread in zoo-confessionals
Nate Dogg said:
It's strangely comforting hearing that this has happened to others like you and Diemen. Besides her, there is only one other friend that I have ever told about all of this, and that wasn't until about a year ago. My family and friends will occaisionally ask me(or even tease me) about me and her, and there's no easy answer. I hope I can move on, meet someone else, all while remaining friends with her. That's a tall order, but I still believe it's possible.....
Klaus said:sure they can - do you think that we are animals who can't controll themself?
MissVelvetDress_75 said:well can you?!
just curious. i have many male friends who i consider to be "like brother's" and have no interest in having a relationship beyond a simple friendship with them.
so now i am curious, is it possible for guys to have female friends and have NO interest in dating them!?
Nate Dogg said:
It's strangely comforting hearing that this has happened to others like you and Diemen. Besides her, there is only one other friend that I have ever told about all of this, and that wasn't until about a year ago. My family and friends will occaisionally ask me(or even tease me) about me and her, and there's no easy answer. I hope I can move on, meet someone else, all while remaining friends with her. That's a tall order, but I still believe it's possible.....
Diemen said:
It is a tall order, but I also believe it possible, though it's a struggle. Things are a little strained still in my case (though much better than before). Sometimes I get the feeling that she thinks I have ulterior motives for pushing so hard to get the friendship back to normal, talk-all-the-time circumstances, when honestly I really just want that kind of friendship back because I've had it for most of my life, and I've become quite attached to it, regardless of the failed romance between us.
Sometimes it seems it would be easier to regain our normal friendship if I met someone else, if that makes any sense.
diamond said:im whelmed by garble
thank u
db9
Diemen said:Yeah, it looks like you jumped the gun a little bit there, Nate, but I completely understand where you're coming from (though I'd personally never go so far as calling my friend an idiot). Still, you should find a nice way to give her a sincere apology, even if she still doesn't accept it immediately.
Last year my friend managed to drop the news on me that she and her boyfriend of (then) 6 weeks were already talking engagement. It came as a shock and I was concerned, but she mistook the concern for jealousy (I didn't lash out or anything, I just asked if she was sure and she mistook it as me trying to plant a seed of doubt ).
Anyway, they've been dating for about 8 months now, they're taking their time and he's thankfully a really cool, truly nice, honest guy so I'm really happy she's found someone worthwhile.
geez. I feel like this should be a private journal entry. Anyway, yeah, apologize to her, if she means as much to you as a friend as my friend does to me, then just hang in there, be patient, and let time run it's course...