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Why My Marriage to Bono Works' by Campaigning Ali
Scotsman - UK

By Louise Hogan, PA



Ali Hewson, wife of rock star Bono, said today that their marriage is successful because they allow each other to chase their goals.


“Our marriage has worked because we like each other, because we talk to each other, and we are passionate about what we do.





“We allow each other to pursue our goals,” she said.


They are also working hard to ensure their four children are not spoiled by the trappings of fame.


Despite U2 rocking the world with huge album sales and Bono entering the political arena, the family still lives in relative peace in their home city of Dublin.


The tightly knit couple, who have been married for 23-years, are quietly raising Jordan, 15, Eve, 13, Elijah, five and three-year-old John Abraham to appreciate how lucky they are.


“We also have two dogs and a rock band,” said 42-year-old Hewson, who has campaigned steadily on political issues behind the scenes of the high-profile band.


“We have taken them to the townships in South Africa. And although they have much more than Bono and I did growing up – Bono’s dad was in the postal service my mum and dad had an electrical business – we don’t spoil them,” said Hewson, who has been shot at during missions to Sarajevo and El Salvador.


It is similar trips to hard hit regions, like Ethiopia some 20-years-ago for Band Aid, that have inspired some of her campaigns.


Another visit to the devastated regions of Africa prompted her latest venture – an ethical clothing range.


“I’ve never been interested in fashion,” she told London’s Evening Standard newspaper.


“But when Bono came back from Africa about three years ago, he had seen how many garment factories were being closed down.”


She said the clothes were carefully crafted in her new ethical venture, Edun, and will be sold through Selfridges.


The campaigner, who began fundraising for the children of Chernobyl in 1993 and left their offspring with Bono to drive an aid ambulance to Belarus, personally inspects every small factory that makes the clothes in Africa, Peru, India and Tunisia.


As a mother, she could not wear clothes made by hard-pressed children, she said.


They have taken their children on many trips, such as Sarajevo, where U2 played a concert to help the war stricken region.


Their eldest, Jordan, said: “Dad is always going away, but he always comes back.”


At the moment U2 – who all met in school after drummer Larry Mullens stuck up a notice – are rehearsing in Mexico for their American tour.


But family ties are not far behind with the whole gang, plus tutors, joining them next month.


Hewson said that Bono, whom she calls ‘B’, phones all the time – one of his music hits The Sweetest Thing was born after he missed her birthday.


She disclosed that after the band “took off” in the 1980s she feared she might lose him.


But they sat down and talked it through.


Music continues to run in the family, with Jordan on piano and Eve wreaking havoc on the drums in their Killiney homestead.


Jordan joked: “He wants us to turn it down, but he will never ask us too. He knows that would be so not cool.”


The couple, who met in school when Hewson was a 12-year-old, have always taken world problems to heart.


“Even at school, Bono and I would talk about what was wrong with the world,” she said. “We grew up hearing about famine. It’s part of being Irish.”


Bono has recently been meeting with world leaders, including Tony Blair and George W Bush over his long-running campaign to cancel the crippling debt repayments that are bringing Africa to it’s knees.


Hewson, who studied for a degree in political scene in the 1980s as U2 gathered steam, said he is unfazed by such high-profile meetings.


“He has had more than 20 years of living with people’s problems,” she said, adding: “Music is his first love.”
 
wow, thanks for posting this article Nurse:up:

Cute how Bono doesn't want to be uncool with his kids. But I'm afraid sometimes he'll have to, that's unfortunately parents' job (from time to time I mean):wink:
 
greety said:
wow, thanks for posting this article Nurse:up:

Cute how Bono doesn't want to be uncool with his kids. But I'm afraid sometimes he'll have to, that's unfortunately parents' job (from time to time I mean):wink:

Mine didn't appreciate my "coolness" (ha ha) until they got older.
 
Jordan joked: “He wants us to turn it down, but he will never ask us too. He knows that would be so not cool.”

best part of the article - so cute
 
Fantastic article, thanks so much nurse chrissi!

:applaud: :applaud: :applaud:

I too was laughing about what Jordan&Eve said!

It's the first time i've heard about anything they've said direct like that!! It's funny 'cos i was picturing Eve as the piano player!

:wink:

I think i'll actually buy The Scotsman, if it's out today as i live in, surprise surprise: Scotland!! :yes: :D
 
The Scotsman missed out the best bits!

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"I ask Jordan whether having Bono (Ali calls him "B") as her father can sometimes be a little embarrassing. Does he wear those wraparound dark glasses to breakfast? She laughs. "No," Jordan says, "he's kind of boring, but sometimes when he drives us to school he wears just his dressing gown, and has the music turned up really loud." "

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"She first met Bono at the age of 12. They went to the same school, Mount Temple Secondary Modern, and Bono, or plain Paul Hewson, was in the year above.

"He worked very hard at being the heart-throb," she says. "He came up to me within the first day and asked, did I know where his class should be going? It was just an excuse to talk to me, and I thought, 'What an eejit.'

"I remember that on the fourth day at school I saw him walking across the courtyard and it was, bing. That is the guy for me.

"But we waited until we were 15 before we actually started going out. We broke up after six weeks because I had promised my best friend I'd just get him out of my system. That completely bemused him." "
 
Very cool article--thanks, is a dressing gown the same as PJ's. I have done that before--gone to a drive thru or take my daughter to school in PJ's.
 
"I remember when I saw Bono on stage for the first time and all I could see were his eyes, it was as if they were lit up. They were electrifying. Amazing." Ali

:yes: They are.
 
She's just such an amazing woman! in the 90's when there was gossip about Bono's relationship with Christy Turlington, he offered to break off his friendship with her because he was tired of people speculating, and Ali's response was: "don't be ridiculous!" What a woman...
 
Bono's Doll said:
Very cool article--thanks, is a dressing gown the same as PJ's. I have done that before--gone to a drive thru or take my daughter to school in PJ's.

A dressing gown is also known as a 'robe', I think.

When I read “We also have two dogs and a rock band,” my monitor got sprayed with toast crumbs. :laugh:

I remember Bono saying a while back that he was angry that he'd never been given the opportunity to learn the piano (or any instrument) as a child:

"He [Bob] was a guy with a beautiful tenor voice and a brilliant student, but who was taken out of school by his mother when he was 14 to help support the family. His biggest regret was that he didn't play the piano to complement his singing.
Yet he wouldn't make sure his children had the chance to study piano. When I was a kid, even before I was tall enough to see the keys, I would stand at my grandmother's piano and play a tune. You would have had to be blind not to see I had an interest in music and piano. "
Joy Makes a Return

"As a kid, I would have loved to have learned to play the piano. I think I'm more than angry about the reasons I didn't." I Wanted Dad to Say He Loved Me

How it must heal his heart to hear Jordan playing the piano, and Eve on the drums. :heart:
 
ruffian said:
She's just such an amazing woman! in the 90's when there was gossip about Bono's relationship with Christy Turlington, he offered to break off his friendship with her because he was tired of people speculating, and Ali's response was: "don't be ridiculous!" What a woman...

No kidding. Just more proof of how much trust she has in him...and Bono knows not to screw that up.

I loved hearing her talk about the first time she saw him, first time she met him, and all that, too. I always wonder about that kind of thing with the celebrities I like who are happily married, and it's always neat to hear those stories.

Angela
 
Great article! Another good quote:

"Dad is always going away," says Jordan, "but he always comes back." You can just hear Ali teaching that to all the kids as soon as they were old enough to understand - Hey, your Dad goes away a lot but he will always come home.

And I like this related quote: "Elijah will never say goodbye to anyone," says Ali, "he just goes downstairs until they've gone, it's so sad and so sweet." "I think he's just plain rude," says Jordan. Such a typical big sister reaction!

And my favorite quote: "I'm starting to like the music now," she says, "but at first I hated it. I grew up listening to my dad's records, Frank Sinatra and Nat King Cole." You gotta love Ali! After over 25 years she's "starting" to like the music!
 
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Zootomic said:
"I think he's just plain rude," says Jordan.[/i] Such a typical big sister reaction!

I thought so too, Zootomic! I can just imagine my own eldest sister saying that, her mouth primmed in disapproval. :D So unsentimental, especially compared to the way Ali viewed the situation!
 
Thank you, Ali Hewson, for everything that you do and for who you are! :wink:
 
Great article! :)

A part was missing though...It stated that the family was going on tour with U2..I guess noone is going to be brought up on stage now!
 
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nurse chrissi said:

Jordan joked: “He wants us to turn it down, but he will never ask us too. He knows that would be so not cool.”

heh! I used to listen to music in my room so loud my mom would yell from downstairs.....and this was with headphones!
 
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