bonoishot said:
Your maybe cynical but your not old.
Yeah it is all new to me. I think he forgets that sometimes. And we hung out a lot over the summer as he wasnt working then so its gone from alot of time together to hardly any and although he warned me, nothing prepared me.
I wanna come to TO. Why do i have no money.? 
VintagePunk said:
Hop in the overanalyzing boys boat and join us! It's a rough ride, and sometimes there's seasickness, but the view?
:lol
What's going on? :hug
!!
or whatever.
<--- me
VintagePunk said:
Hop in the overanalyzing boys boat and join us! It's a rough ride, and sometimes there's seasickness, but the view?
What's going on?
VintagePunk said:
Awww, it's really hard to go from lots of attention to very little, when they get busy, without feeling very insecure about it - especially in a new relationship.
~BrightestStar~ said:
See, we should all just get signs that say:
Boys are simple. Stop thinking!
I don't know, probably nothing.
I'm just being overlysensitive or stupid
For the past, two weeks or so, I can't remember exactly, he hasn't been coming to class. And we hadn't talked on MSN at all. I started to think he had dropped the class, and not even told me. And while he was signed on to MSN sometimes, he was set to away, so I didn't message him. Although, I IMed him once, but he didn't respond.
Usually he IM's me. And the longer he didn't, the more I got my back up and decided that I wouldn't IM him.
(And all of this is in comparison to before when we were chatting fairly regularly...)
Then on last friday, he came on, told me he'd gotten stressed with school/overwhelmed/wasn't feeling well. And that's why he hadn't been to class. Ubderstandable cause he's got alot of labs this year, I'd freak too. I told him I thought he'd dropped the class, and he was all 'hell no, and I would tell you first anyway'. Then he shows up in class monday. Comments I should come visit him.
On wed I had a few hrs off, so I txtd him saying we should meet up so he can entertain me.
I haven't heard from him since. And he hasn't been to class again. And He always has his cell on, and I've txtd him before, so he should have gotten it.
So I'm getting this sense that's he's avoiding me, or maybe he's got a gf, or something, anything. It's making me obsessive.
And I'm prob just being silly, he's just busy with school, jus like I am....
and I seem to have made my best friend fall in love with me...t aht scared me, and we got in a fight... we made up again... and yea,... he's starting to act weird again 
and I'm still unsure if he's just being weird, or actually infatuated with me..... ack it's a long story
~BrightestStar~ said:
I don't know, probably nothing.
I'm just being overlysensitive or stupid :lol : or whatever.
For the past, two weeks or so, I can't remember exactly, he hasn't been coming to class. And we hadn't talked on MSN at all. I started to think he had dropped the class, and not even told me. And while he was signed on to MSN sometimes, he was set to away, so I didn't message him. Although, I IMed him once, but he didn't respond.
Usually he IM's me. And the longer he didn't, the more I got my back up and decided that I wouldn't IM him.
(And all of this is in comparison to before when we were chatting fairly regularly...)
Then on last friday, he came on, told me he'd gotten stressed with school/overwhelmed/wasn't feeling well. And that's why he hadn't been to class. Ubderstandable cause he's got alot of labs this year, I'd freak too. I told him I thought he'd dropped the class, and he was all 'hell no, and I would tell you first anyway'. Then he shows up in class monday. Comments I should come visit him.
On wed I had a few hrs off, so I txtd him saying we should meet up so he can entertain me.
I haven't heard from him since. And he hasn't been to class again. And He always has his cell on, and I've txtd him before, so he should have gotten it.
So I'm getting this sense that's he's avoiding me, or maybe he's got a gf, or something, anything. It's making me obsessive. :grumpy :
And I'm prob just being silly, he's just busy with school, jus like I am....:sigh :
:blahblah : <--- me
Maybe if hes overwhelmed/stressed hes trying to just chill out by himself. Andy did that not so long ago. He needed time to himself for a week. Has anyone ele heard from / seen him. If he hasn't ben to class he might be trying to chill out at home. Though if that is the case he should have text you to just tell you as that is common courtesy.
Galeongirl said:
I know it's young Jem, and no doubt my opinion will change... but I have a very bad taste in guys... the wrong ones!
about the friend. Hope you can sort that out. Nothing wrong with it though. I had more time for concerts/friends/travel etc.
in his life right now. I don't think he would have said those things to you had he been intentionally avoiding you, or had a girlfriend. 
)...taking things personally, and thinking "fine, screw you, then!" when the issues that a person has really have nothing to do with me. And sometimes when I'm incredibly overwhelmed with things, I tend to sort of shut down, and not want a lot of contact with people, either. 
But in the end, he'll appreciate that you at least offered, I'm sure. 
uhoh: long story) But he's not exactly the guy you would bring home to yer parents... on top of that I have a 'perfect sister' and her 'perfect' boyfriend... so if I'd come home with a gothic, I know my parents wouldn't like it... they're not very fond of him so say already as my friend... so yea... complicated situations!
VintagePunk said:Awww, Bri! It really doesn't sound like he's avoiding you. In fact, it sounds like he's incredibly stressed, and that you're one of the bright spots (~BrightestStar~)
You sound like me (or at least the way I used to be, I *think* I'm getting a little better
I would just e-mail him or something, let him know you're thinking of him, wondering how he's doing, and that you understand the stress he's under....tell him that if he needs a source to vent to, you're there for him. Then, just leave it at that, and see if he responds. If he doesn't, don't take it personally. some people, and guys especially, need to crawl away for a bit, and just work things out on their own.
Galeongirl said:
I know it's young Jem, and no doubt my opinion will change... but I have a very bad taste in guys... the wrong ones!
Galeongirl said:Don't get me wrong, I'd love to have a nice relationship... but yea, I don't think I coudl get one.... biggest thing is... guys my age, are either incredibly childish and over-sexed, or incredible nerds... yea, and neither of those are particulary attractive to me... well, there is this one guy, my sorta ex bf
There are some nice ones out there though. but i will just try to explain how happy he makes me (normally excpet for like i am today ) If you need to talk about any of it we're aways listening. 
)
~BrightestStar~ said:
The friend who's infatuated thing with a long story.... Been there, done that. Really not so fun.
Galeongirl said:
bonoishot said:
Alot of guys your age, even my age and older are like that. They never grow up.
Sweetie, if you like someone and they treat you right, with love and respect etc that is the main thing. Obviously it would be nice if your parents liked your boyfriend/s but you would be going out with the guy not them. If they saw how happy you were maybe they would come round. I'm dating a guy who is 40, 17/18 years older than me which im sure will go down great with my grandparents when i tell them
There is no such thing as a perfect relationship or person so dont compare yourself to your sis or her boyfriend, we like you just the way you are.
The X Factor has just come on. ( American Idol type programme. ) I'm gonna go watch Simon Cowell.
Be back 9.30pm my time. ( In half an hour)
VintagePunk said:Awww, Bri! It really doesn't sound like he's avoiding you. In fact, it sounds like he's incredibly stressed, and that you're one of the bright spots (~BrightestStar~) :cute in his life right now. I don't think he would have said those things to you had he been intentionally avoiding you, or had a girlfriend.
You sound like me (or at least the way I used to be, I *think* I'm getting a little better :shifty )...taking things personally, and thinking "fine, screw you, then!" when the issues that a person has really have nothing to do with me. And sometimes when I'm incredibly overwhelmed with things, I tend to sort of shut down, and not want a lot of contact with people, either.
I would just e-mail him or something, let him know you're thinking of him, wondering how he's doing, and that you understand the stress he's under....tell him that if he needs a source to vent to, you're there for him. Then, just leave it at that, and see if he responds. If he doesn't, don't take it personally. some people, and guys especially, need to crawl away for a bit, and just work things out on their own. :yes But in the end, he'll appreciate that you at least offered, I'm sure.
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~BrightestStar~ said:Aww, thanks for listening girls.
I tell ya, we should just have PGP sleepover, and eat chocolate and rant about boys and watch movies with hot men...
what movies do you suggest?
I have a good story but I don't know what to do about this boy...sami0201 said::shifty
Boy problems are everywhere these days!
Galeongirl said:
Thanks for the same to everybody here :hug
I like your idea
:shifty
I'm in for the very new movie A Night In The Life Of Bono
~BrightestStar~ said:
Bring it on, girlfriend!
As you can see, we're having ourselves a boyrant fest.
And which boy is 'this boy', this time?
Ok I'll type it out...
jobob said:Hello!
Am I too late for the PGP men rant fest?
Men.
Go complain all you like! sami0201 said:
It's a new one.
Loaded. Lives in like a $10 million house in the most expensive community in town. Not like that affects my decisions or anything, but it's good to know. And my mom wasn't too crazy about him (something I'll have to PM you about as not to sound rude) but now she's like "oh okay you can go out with him!" 
I sit with my back to him and my friends say that sometimes he's looking at me.
