VintagePunk said:
Oh, the survey can't be done, it was just to look at.
Or I suppose you could fill it out if you wanted, but nothing would happen.
There's no reply or results page...the responses simply get fed into a database for me to analyze/statistically test at the end of the study.
And I just took the urls down, anyway.
Diane L said:
Yeah. This is so irresponsible of me. And I feel badly for the interviewer who will be waiting for me to show up and I won't.
Oh, well. I have another interview about the same time next week, and that job sounds more promising!
I guess it depends on the depth of the relationship. If I was genuinely concerned about the possibility of losing them, I think I would definitely respect their wishes. If it was something I could stand to lose, even if it wasn't what I wanted, I'd go ahead and do my own thing.
Depends on how strongly each of you feel about it. If you're at opposite ends of the spectrum, then you're in trouble. If one person feels less strongly, they are more likely to compromise. Or, sometimes both can compromise and reach a midpoint.
It's all about cost/benefit.