Pleba Girls: Moving South.......To Chicago

[greeneyedgirl]

New thread time

 

[WildHoney]

Hi girls

 

[greeneyedgirl]

Hi Wild


Hi Weldy IllinoisCloneLove
Sorry your mom is ill. Hope she gets well soon.

 

[sami0201]

hi Wild

 

[bonoishot]

i was still in the old thread



gonna post my post in here

im so dopey

 

[daygloeyes2]

Hi Wild

 

[bonoishot]

[Quote:
Originally posted by Dismantled



hey:angry : you can join our screwed up father club:angry :

:mad : :mad : dad:mad :

I meant to put :happy : faces instead of :angry : faces...:lmao : omg...freuidan slip?!!!! talking about dad just makes me type the word angry:lmao : ]



Dis

can i join the fucked up father club


mines a he walked out the day bfore my 7th birthday , kept in contact with me til i was about 9, then i saw him at his fathers funeral when i was 10, but not seen him since! his wife used to write my birthday cards

now hes decided he wants to see me, hes 11 years too late


i have a rejection complex cause of him

 

[greeneyedgirl]

HI Jem, you only have.........how many more hours?



I'm excited too!!

 

[sami0201]

Jem

 

[daygloeyes2]

Awww Jem

I guess you've all gotten an insight as to why I'm so screwed up: my parents.

 

[bonoishot]

HI Jem, you only have.........how many more hours?



I'm excited too!!

i have 2.5 hours at work tomoz, then i have hair appointment and getting eyebrows waxed then im on the train to meet wild! about 23 hours till i see wild at the most

 

[bonoishot]

Awww Jem

I guess you've all gotten an insight as to why I'm so screwed up: my parents.

i get what you mean in a way DG

the way my dad treated me didnt hit me until i was like 17 and i really messed up my A S -levels (exams we take here at 16/17 (BG is doing those now) and iwas so seriously up and down since then, still am now

if you ever need to talk you know my IM and email ! honest to god my father has a lot to answer for

 

[greeneyedgirl]

6 days for me!!

 

[WildHoney]

i was still in the old thread



gonna post my post in here

im so dopey

Thhat's what makes you so adorable

 

[U2MaNaIcWeIdO]

Jem

I hope so too GG IllinoisCloneLove

 

[daygloeyes2]

i get what you mean in a way DG

the way my dad treated me didnt hit me until i was like 17 and i really messed up my A S -levels (exams we take here at 16/17 (BG is doing those now) and iwas so seriously up and down since then, still am now

if you ever need to talk you know my IM and email ! honest to god my father has a lot to answer for

I blocked alot of the stuff out that my mom did to me, but whenever we fight all the bad memories pop up from when she used to hurt me when I was younger.

I'm so sorry he messed you up. And same here if you ever want to talk you know where to find me.

 

[WildHoney]

i have 2.5 hours at work tomoz, then i have hair appointment and getting eyebrows waxed then im on the train to meet wild! about 23 hours till i see wild at the most

I'll be waiting in the hotel bedroom

 

[daygloeyes2]

80 days for me.

 

[WildHoney]

80 days for me.

and me

 

[daygloeyes2]

and me

Poor Wild has to wait until after she goes to Toronto and Chicago almost 3 months to see them again.

 

[WildHoney]

Poor Wild has to wait until after she goes to Toronto and Chicago almost 3 months to see them again.

But i'm only going so i can meet you

 

[daygloeyes2]

But i'm only going so i can meet you

 

[greeneyedgirl]

DG and BG, my mom was emotionally and verbally abusive to me.
So much that I always wanted to grow up and move far, far away. (Turns out I did, 200 miles)
My dad never took sides. It has put a strain on my relationship with him. My mom and I don't really have a relationship, she calls and I don't answer.
My dad has just recently figured out how I felt growing up, now that he is retired and at home all the time.
Its too late for me to work things out with her. Truth is, I just don't give a shit.
I tell people all the time that when my dad is too old to care for himself, I will take him into my own home. My mom, she gets carted off to the cheapest, most remote, run-down county facility I can find.
I'm not happy about the fact that I don't really have a mom.
Luckily, Mr GG's mom is a wonderful woman who treats me like the daughter she always wanted. She has filled the gap since I was 15.
I hope you both use this experience to make yourselves strong women like I did. I'm not saying hate you parents, though.
I'm just saying that stages like this in your life make you who you are in the future. I hope you make the right choices.

 

[daygloeyes2]

OK, I really have to start my homework now. I probably won't be back. Talk to you all tomorrow.

Wild and Jem, if I don't talk to you tomorrow have an awesome time in Toronto and Chicago and happy early birthday to both of you! Give B a kiss for me.

 

[bonoishot]

Thhat's what makes you so adorable

 

[U2MaNaIcWeIdO]

Awww GG

My Mom has always been sick...has been since the day I was born

 

[WildHoney]

OK, I really have to start my homework now. I probably won't be back. Talk to you all tomorrow.

Wild and Jem, if I don't talk to you tomorrow have an awesome time in Toronto and Chicago and happy early birthday to both of you! Give B a kiss for me.

Thanks DG

I want to give Bono more than a kiss from you

 

[bonoishot]

I blocked alot of the stuff out that my mom did to me, but whenever we fight all the bad memories pop up from when she used to hurt me when I was younger.

I'm so sorry he messed you up. And same here if you ever want to talk you know where to find me.

 

[dazzledbylight]

Extra s to you all esp with either parent problems of the {whichever kind of} abusiveness kind.

My dad started to really become emotionally/verbally
abusive after his 2nd depression, though he had been occasioanly when i was very young as well.

Even though he went to therapy several times- he never told any therapist except the last one that BOTH of his parents were severe alcoholics!!
Who knows what stuff he went through, never got clear up/concious of to start to diminish effects etc

After his last major depression in 90's he got even worst and has threatened to hit me several times.....which I managed to talk him out of it.....
But again also more demanding nasty etc.....He just was not often good to be around any more and he drove people away.

I'd visit him in the nursing home and at least occasionally it would be a nice visit.
After he had his major stroke {? 3 yrs ago} he lost almost all his nastiness, but also a lot of the good quailites....it's I think alot tied up with quite serious short term memory problems.

SO for past 3 yrs he's usually on the quieter side , and quite sweet {which he also used to be before the nastier emotioned reigned}.

So he's gotten more hugs & kisses from me in the past 3 yrs than the previous 20! He still retains a pretty good amount of cogency that gets messed up because of how quickly his memory blinks out.... every 4 - 1 min.

He was esp before the 2nd depression an often caring, fun, interested in all manner of things around him....Nature, Science, Music, Architecute { Lighting Engineer & salesman}....politics and community work.....

 

[bonoishot]

Thanks DG

I want to give Bono more than a kiss from you

Thanks DG

im with wild i wanna give him more thana kiss

what a bday that would be



we'll try find a net cafe while were away (and at heathrow airport in london) so we can talk to you all