thinking....thinking.....
U2Kitten said:
That's it, Kelly.
People may read these stories, but since it's in PLEBA the kind of person who makes fun of PLEBA and the gushing and drooling will not do so in our own community, but will outside it. A lot of girls have tried getting around more but a lot of us come back, or stay mostly here, and feel safer here. There are things we say here that we would not do or say on other forums. I really feel like most of the PLEBA girls' stories would lose their friendliness and flavor if it were on the open forum. But I don't see what's wrong with leaving this here and making a different one for everyone else, since with the tour the meetings will be of a different type anyway.
Hi, Elvis.
I tend to agree with U2Kit & Kelly they're just saying it better.
If this forum is moved or deleted, I hope that at least the PLEBA girls who choose to tell their story only to the PLEBA community will be allowed to post it on the regular PLEBA forum and not have it moved
There really isn't anywhere else for the girls to tell it 'that' way.
I definately agree with the above . Let those who want to post in PLEBA
only do so, and if they want to do so in the open one and perhaps 'edit themselves' on that one can.
Even I myself felt kind quesy when i quiokly glanced at the suggestion several days back!
And while I have hardly if ever yet posted in ETYKIW because I just don't have the time/money to do so- and would hope i get to more in the future; I do post ocasionally in FYM and wouuld even do more there with enuff time & money.
I think you might understand. Think of it as ...
a gentler version... of 'locker room' type talk
at times .
Some
other women and a lot of guys/men feel real strange at reading this type of 'expressiveness' from girls/gals/women. Some even get really angry outright or even on a semi or unconcious level. This type of talk still isn't exactly accepted even here in esp certain regions or parts of cultures in the USA {i know this is a world-wide forum and I love for that reason , too}
Heck, you all toned it down from what it could really be like {REAL women's locker talk
} back then-- I used to lurk about 2 yrs ago
. It was great IMHO because women felt so free to be so 'freewheeling'. to really say how they felt. I
can understand why you changed it and I still have a whole lot of fun in that thread so I'm just pointing it out, to help make my curent overall point .
Sure, OK other people have read the stuff...but
we don't "know it" so to speak. And they don't stop in and razz us.
I'm sure some of the girls/gals/women might just even unconciously self-censor themselves if that was their/our only outlet.aand the kind of not really acceptability can make girls/women embarrassed because some part of them still believe's it 'unexceptable behavoir'. Some may be comfortABLE WITH THat mix of feelings and others may not & shut that part down.
In one of the most major Tolkien sites were they have the Films section the have among a sea of forums/threads: the films and The fILMS 'swooning' threads, which i'm sure you can guess the differences.
If you insist.....ok I'll try it but I don't think I'd feel real good about it.
thanks for polling us.