Bbug
Acrobat
(Okay, I know I said I'd leave but)I understand what you're saying, and I agree that there is such a thing as gaydar. I actually have decent gaydar myself, even though i'm a straight girl...it's hard to explain. I'm also sorry about your friend
That's a cute story about the shirt
One of my best friends, who I've known just about my entire life, came out just last year. He doesn't fit the stereotypes either. I probably overreacted, and I'm sorry, Lemonboy, if you were just kidding. ((HUGS)) to Lemonboy, either way. It wasn't nice of me to single you out. It bothers me a lot because I grew up around, and went to middle and high school with, some people who are SERIOUSLY anti-gay. Any guy who dressed well, had legible handwriting, or could draw was fair game to be made fun of or beat up on the playground. It STILL makes me really angry to think about that, and some of this stuff happened when I was like 10. And this topic can totally die now, as far as I'm concerned.