I need help with the 'old fashioned' guy

[clarityat3am]

I don't know what to do! He's old fashioned, Polish and all I want is to be friends (yeah I do like him but I don't want to do anything too fast here) so I can get to know him and I'm not sure how to even get him to call me! He's tough! I gave him my phone number the other day but I'm not even sure if he'll call me...ever. lol So I need help with this old fashioned stuff. Someone explain what I should do so I don't scare him!

 

[Snooky pie]

I grew up with a VERY OLD FASHIONED mother & grandmother.I was raised on how girls (ladies) should and shouldn't act I'll try and give you a few pointers.

I wouldn't call him, if he's as old fashioned as you say he is, he may not like it (I was never allowed to call boys) makes you seem to eager.

Here's something you can try..... Bake some cookies/brownies and take them to work for *all* your coworkers, but personaly offer him one and tell him you made them yourself, you might even want to be sneaky and look up some Polish desserts on the net and make one of them....

you could also plan a get together of coworkers away from work nothing too big, go bowling, see a movie, something along those lines.
I hope this helps.

 

[diamond]

put him over your knee

db9

 

[clarityat3am]

Haha db! I think that Snooky is on the right track for me though. Keep the tips coming!

 

[Snooky pie]

one question. When you gave him your Number, did he ask for it?

 

[clarityat3am]

Well um....no. So ....yeah.....

 

[Snooky pie]

Well um....no. So ....yeah.....

is that a yes??
If so thats a good thing even if he didn't still a good thing.....

 

[clarityat3am]

He didn't ask. It was my empowered womanness that brought me to give it to him.

 

[Snooky pie]

He didn't ask. It was my empowered womanness that brought me to give it to him.

Not to worry.....
I still say you should plan a get together of Coworkers.....

 

[SoBe]

I'd say snooky is on the right track. Give it a go with the co-workers. I especially like the idea of looking up a Polish recipe.

 

[Keocmb]

Wow. Call me new-fashioned but I would never change the way I act to impress a guy.