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I accepted Jesus into my heart when I was 11 years old, and was a regular church goer since then until about 3-4 years ago, maybe more. There were times when I fell back, had some times when I didnt want to go, but most of the time I went. Why did I stopped going to church? The excuses were lame on my ex's part: didnt have time, didnt want to be a hypocrite, etc., etc., so because of him, I stopped going also. I would have gone to church myself, but I didnt drive then. I just received my DL a half a year ago.
Anyways, about a year and a half ago, my ex and i seperated, and now I am waiting for my divorce to be finalized. In between that time we seperated, he has gone back to church, and takes my daughter when he has her for the weekends. He asks me why I dont go, and would like my daughter to be more involved. My reasons are simple, and maybe a little lame: I don't want to go back to church because, I dont want to be a hypocrite, and I don't want anyone to start praying that my ex and I get back together again(My ex wants me back). I do believe in the power of prayer, and I feel if I start going back to church, everyone there, will start to pray for some kind of healing in the marriage. If anything, I would rather start going to church when my divorces is final. I guess you could say that I don't trust God with that area in my life. I want my divorce to be over. Done with.
I DONT WANT HIM BACK. I am so happy with where I am right now. I really love being single. I have 2 jobs that I just started, my daughter is the happiest I have seen her in the longest time, I am becoming independent, slowly but surely. I am this new person who never had the chance to start living until now, and I don't want that to change.
There are too many things to list why I just don't want my ex back. Some of you interferencers may know my history, most of you don't. To make the long story short, I don't love him anymore. I don't want him back. My life WILL end if I end up going back to him. Its like I see myself dying inside when I think of him and myself together. It makes me sick thinking about him.
So my argument is this...why should I go back to church? I dont want to because of my fears, but I really miss going. It would make my daughter happy also, I guess. I'm torn over this. I'll end up regretting posting this sooner or later, but its something I needed to get off my chest. Thanks for listening.
Anyways, about a year and a half ago, my ex and i seperated, and now I am waiting for my divorce to be finalized. In between that time we seperated, he has gone back to church, and takes my daughter when he has her for the weekends. He asks me why I dont go, and would like my daughter to be more involved. My reasons are simple, and maybe a little lame: I don't want to go back to church because, I dont want to be a hypocrite, and I don't want anyone to start praying that my ex and I get back together again(My ex wants me back). I do believe in the power of prayer, and I feel if I start going back to church, everyone there, will start to pray for some kind of healing in the marriage. If anything, I would rather start going to church when my divorces is final. I guess you could say that I don't trust God with that area in my life. I want my divorce to be over. Done with.
I DONT WANT HIM BACK. I am so happy with where I am right now. I really love being single. I have 2 jobs that I just started, my daughter is the happiest I have seen her in the longest time, I am becoming independent, slowly but surely. I am this new person who never had the chance to start living until now, and I don't want that to change.
There are too many things to list why I just don't want my ex back. Some of you interferencers may know my history, most of you don't. To make the long story short, I don't love him anymore. I don't want him back. My life WILL end if I end up going back to him. Its like I see myself dying inside when I think of him and myself together. It makes me sick thinking about him.
So my argument is this...why should I go back to church? I dont want to because of my fears, but I really miss going. It would make my daughter happy also, I guess. I'm torn over this. I'll end up regretting posting this sooner or later, but its something I needed to get off my chest. Thanks for listening.