If I were to believe May Pang's (Lennon's girlfriend) book on Lennon, I'd say he was BOTH incredibly loving and very callous to his loved ones, depending on his state of mind. He had his moments of genius and his moments of disillusionment. But I don't know the real story, I don't even know if the things he did to May were true.
I respect Bono more because he is more consistent and I feel I could really learn from a guy like him. Even though Lennon may be that much more brilliant than Bono, the latter guy has what the former does not have: humility.
There's no question that Lennon has influenced, and is still influencing, people today for the better, though. Take a look at the tribute concert held in his honour after Sept 11. The people were bound together with a love for Lennon's simple message of peace and love.
However, I tend to think... and please don't anyone be angry with what I say next... I tend to think that Bono's message of peace is more founded (excuse bad grammar). Why? -- Because 'Imagine', which could be considered the anthem for Lennon's ideas of peace and love, has lyrics that are too idealistic and is phrased in such general terms that the idea of peace is rendered vague. "Imagine there's no heaven/It's easy if you try/No hell below us/Above us only sky". "Imagine there's no countries/It isn't hard to do/Nothing to kill or die for/And no religion too". The song gives a hypothetical world where people don't have any cause to fight for anything. It talks about "sharing the world" and the world living as one. If only things were that simple. However, due to the laws of balance and capitalism, this world will always have these things (heaven, hell, greed etc) that the song renounces. The song, as well as Lennon's words during interviews (I've heard a couple) doesn't offer real solutions, it is not a real kind of peace. He just says things like "we shouldn't fight, we must love each other".
Bono's version of peace is more real because he acknowledges the pain that comes with the world (as in the song Peace On Earth) AND offers realistic, very very specific solutions, through his work with DATA, Drop The Debt.
I guess I could sum it up by saying that Lennon's ideas remain just that: ideas. When you hear them, they sound nice and give feelings of hope, but ultimately they remain in the mind. With Bono, the feelings of hope are given hands and feet.
Just my opinion. I still very much enjoy Lennon's music.
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