lauramullen
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Being led on by someone
My neighbor has either a goose or duck in his yard. Whatever it is, it quacks. I was soundly sleeping this morning around 10:30am until the damn animal kept quacking non-stop. I got out of bed & went to the couch.
Trying to post on here from my Iphone.
Being led on by someone
Took my elderly mother for her regular eye check and finding out that due to cataracts, she is for all intents and purposes blind in one eye. She is now booked in for surgery. However, she only ever said that her vision was not quite what it was and only agreed she couldn't see a thing in the optometrist's chair.
I asked her why she never said anything to me, she said she didn't want to worry me!!!! OK, like possibly falling over and breaking a bone cos her depth of field is shot or not seeing something in the way wouldn't worry me??? Mothers!!!!
Jeez, Indra, how frightening for you!!
Reminds me of my mom. One time she insisted I do the second day of an art show, even though she was very tired and I was worried about her. I got her to agree to let me know if she was any worse during the day, and I called several times to check up on her. Every single time she insisted she was feeling better.
So I get home and she doesn't come out to meet me, which is a bad sign. I go into the house and she's sitting on the couch gasping for breath and is BLUE! She didn't just have blue fingertips -- her skin was blue. I swear she looked like a smurf! She didn't tell me she was getting much worse because she didn't want me to have to pack up early and miss the rest of the show. Argh!
So she went to the hospital (her heart failure had worsened) and a few days later had surgery to replace a heart valve. She managed the surgery well and had some more pretty good years after that. She was always a challenge to get to go to the hospital though.....
Good luck to your mom with her surgery. It should make a great difference for her. With any luck she'll wonder why she didn't do it sooner!
Not getting an answer yet from my boss about my vacation request for 5/13-19.
Reminds me of my mom. One time she insisted I do the second day of an art show, even though she was very tired and I was worried about her. I got her to agree to let me know if she was any worse during the day, and I called several times to check up on her. Every single time she insisted she was feeling better.
So I get home and she doesn't come out to meet me, which is a bad sign. I go into the house and she's sitting on the couch gasping for breath and is BLUE! She didn't just have blue fingertips -- her skin was blue. I swear she looked like a smurf! She didn't tell me she was getting much worse because she didn't want me to have to pack up early and miss the rest of the show. Argh!
So she went to the hospital (her heart failure had worsened) and a few days later had surgery to replace a heart valve. She managed the surgery well and had some more pretty good years after that. She was always a challenge to get to go to the hospital though.....
Good luck to your mom with her surgery. It should make a great difference for her. With any luck she'll wonder why she didn't do it sooner!
i can sympathize too. ages ago, my boss at a job i had approved my vacation time, no problem. so i think yay, time off for me. the day before (!!!!) i'm due to leave, she comes to tell me she's basically unapproving it because someone quit and she already approved someone else to be out for surgery. i was like umm...now if someone's quitting, they're quitting. she'd already found another job so it's not like she'd be afraid to be fired instead or something. but the other was elective surgery, i don't know how that shit works but at another job i had, if it wasn't a disability thing, they can say no. regardless it's like...i'm the one who asked first! i was already mentally checking out of the job anyway and i held my ground and said no, i've got flights booked and i can't just cancel everything. she was pissed but oh well.I can sympathize.
Today I just got an email saying we're not allowed to take vacation in June and July, because of this major project that we're involved in.
Umm, couldn't they tell me this when we first found out about the project in March?? I already made arrangements for 3 trips in that period for this thing called the U2360 Tour! Doesn't everyone know about the tour??
Not getting an answer yet from my boss about my vacation request for 5/13-19.
Took my elderly mother for her regular eye check and finding out that due to cataracts, she is for all intents and purposes blind in one eye. She is now booked in for surgery. However, she only ever said that her vision was not quite what it was and only agreed she couldn't see a thing in the optometrist's chair.
I asked her why she never said anything to me, she said she didn't want to worry me!!!! OK, like possibly falling over and breaking a bone cos her depth of field is shot or not seeing something in the way wouldn't worry me??? Mothers!!!!
Reminds me of my mom. One time she insisted I do the second day of an art show, even though she was very tired and I was worried about her. I got her to agree to let me know if she was any worse during the day, and I called several times to check up on her. Every single time she insisted she was feeling better.
So I get home and she doesn't come out to meet me, which is a bad sign. I go into the house and she's sitting on the couch gasping for breath and is BLUE! She didn't just have blue fingertips -- her skin was blue. I swear she looked like a smurf! She didn't tell me she was getting much worse because she didn't want me to have to pack up early and miss the rest of the show. Argh!
So she went to the hospital (her heart failure had worsened) and a few days later had surgery to replace a heart valve. She managed the surgery well and had some more pretty good years after that. She was always a challenge to get to go to the hospital though.....
Good luck to your mom with her surgery. It should make a great difference for her. With any luck she'll wonder why she didn't do it sooner!
I can sympathize.
Today I just got an email saying we're not allowed to take vacation in June and July, because of this major project that we're involved in.
Umm, couldn't they tell me this when we first found out about the project in March?? I already made arrangements for 3 trips in that period for this thing called the U2360 Tour! Doesn't everyone know about the tour??
^it's okay because god forgives her for being an ass.
^it's okay because god forgives her for being an ass.