Non celebrity people you secretly like thread

[pgv]

that taught me a lesson that men should be asking girls out, because men need to be physically turned on by how a woman/girl looks, and if that aint happenin, then he really doesn't wanna know.

now these days I never get asked out, I blame my looks - but then Im keeping myself to myself cause I hate my image (bad smile and all). I may or may not be correct in what Im doing. Im not being vain about it either, but as an observer, I cant help but notice and stay quiet.

This is COMPLETELY the wrong mindset... there shouldn't be any defined 'rules' as to who asks out who, just what feels right at the time - you making a move or them. And if you're basing it on idiot guys who feel like they have to be asking out Angelina Jolie or something, then you're going for the wrong guys

That's ridiculous dear, you're gorgeous in your pictures on your profile and have a gorgeous personality on here to boot. I don't think you're vain, I just think you're insecure - and only you can change that, doesn't matter how many people tell you what I've told you. But it's honestly the truth

 

[ladyhawke34]

Awesome, GG!

 

[coolian2]

This is COMPLETELY the wrong mindset... there shouldn't be any defined 'rules' as to who asks out who, just what feels right at the time - you making a move or them. And if you're basing it on idiot guys who feel like they have to be asking out Angelina Jolie or something, then you're going for the wrong guys

correct.

besides, the girl making the first move is by no means a bad thing.

 

[MooMoo!]

Yeah, but if I ask a guy out, then I get the rejection/rejection fear.

 

[lauramullen]

I saw my high school crush last night.

 

[coolian2]

Yeah, but if I ask a guy out, then I get the rejection/rejection fear.

yeah, i'm hardly in a position to offer advice.

she only got the chance to make the first move because i was delaying saying it, even though i was 100% sure she felt the same way about me.

 

[The Sad Punk]

To whom that I won't name,

I think you know as good as I do that our shared experience today involving breaking off a long piece of masking tape was positively sexual, and the energy in the painting room could not have been hotter. I'm well aware that you have a lady yourself, but the way you casually invited me to go rock climbing with you on the weekend was undoubtedly some kind of code for getting rutty, and that you are definitely going to break up with that woman. I hope.

 

[blueeyedgirl]

*looks forward to next installment*

 

[Galeongirl]

*looks forward to next installment*

^ WHat she said!

 

[ladyhawke34]

*looks forward to next installment*

Ditto.

 

[The Sad Punk]

And if it doesn't work out, I can write for Mills and Boon!

 

[Galeongirl]

Texted recordstore for the name of his manager(I'm hoping to get a job at their store), and he immediately replied. That's a positive sign right?
I'll get the name tomorrow, he's new so he doesn't know the last name yet, and hand in my letter and resume then.

Any tips on flirting or anything? I wouldn't want to overdo it if the manager's there!

 

[MooMoo!]

To whom that I won't name,

I think you know as good as I do that our shared experience today involving breaking off a long piece of masking tape was positively sexual, and the energy in the painting room could not have been hotter. I'm well aware that you have a lady yourself, but the way you casually invited me to go rock climbing with you on the weekend was undoubtedly some kind of code for getting rutty, and that you are definitely going to break up with that woman. I hope.

Ive never heard "masking tape" being used in the same sentance as "sexual" so that in itself is an achievement.

 

[Cin]

Texted recordstore for the name of his manager(I'm hoping to get a job at their store), and he immediately replied. That's a positive sign right?
I'll get the name tomorrow, he's new so he doesn't know the last name yet, and hand in my letter and resume then.

Any tips on flirting or anything? I wouldn't want to overdo it if the manager's there!

Don't do it in front of the manager. If you get the job there will be plenty of time for that. Back stock room or trips to the rubbish are always good ways to get away or so I've heard. . . .

 

[Galeongirl]

Don't do it in front of the manager. If you get the job there will be plenty of time for that. Back stock room or trips to the rubbish are always good ways to get away or so I've heard. . . .

Oh no you didn't!

 

[Cin]

^...."or so I've heard" ......doesn't always mean you've done it. . . .

 

[Galeongirl]

Well, not always. But seeing as you're the one who's saying it.


Got any more advice?

 

[Cin]

When you work in the same place for more than 10 years you see and hear a LOT of things. Even if people think they're being discreet someone will always know.
As long as it doesn't get in the way of your job then go for it.

 

[major_panic]

As long as it doesn't get in the way of your job then go for it.

... even though the only reason she's getting the job is, well, to allow something to get in the way of it?

Ah hell, that was a really convoluted sentence.

 

[Galeongirl]

... even though the only reason she's getting the job is, well, to allow something to get in the way of it?

Ah hell, that was a really convoluted sentence.

Nah, I'm not using him to get the job. I wanted that job before I knew him, this just makes it... easier I hope. Cause he can get me the name of their manager to personalise the letter of motivation, and I know people there.

Though I wouldn't mind it if something would evolve out of our working together, ofcourse.

 

[mad1]

I prefer to see any crushes I have actually with someone. yes it can hurt like hell, but that passes so quickly because of closure

 

[bonoishot]

When you work in the same place for more than 10 years you see and hear a LOT of things. Even if people think they're being discreet someone will always know.
As long as it doesn't get in the way of your job then go for it.

A woman at my work got very naughty in a car with someone who wasn't her other half. The security camera's in the car park recorded the whole thing.

 

[Galeongirl]

^Ouch.


Handed in the form today, the manager would hand it to the regional manager when he stops by the next week. He's going to tell him I'm a good candidate.

 

[zuropa_fit]

Good luck, GG, with the job and the boy!

 

[kingofsorrow]

well it's been almost 2weeks since i been back to work and i haven't seen the cute girl. i guess i lost my chance. oh well, moving on.

 

[nicv]

To whom that I won't name,

I think you know as good as I do that our shared experience today involving breaking off a long piece of masking tape was positively sexual, and the energy in the painting room could not have been hotter. I'm well aware that you have a lady yourself, but the way you casually invited me to go rock climbing with you on the weekend was undoubtedly some kind of code for getting rutty, and that you are definitely going to break up with that woman. I hope.

Definitely sounds like code! So you going rock climbing this weekend?

I will be checking this thread constantly occasionally for an update

*jumpsintocoldshower*

 

[mad1]

PGV, I understand ya tryin to tell me , but you cannot convince me Im afraid.
I will always see myself as completely non-attractive to guys.

but thanks for trying to lift my spirits

 

[Galeongirl]

well it's been almost 2weeks since i been back to work and i haven't seen the cute girl. i guess i lost my chance. oh well, moving on.

Don't give up all the hope so fast! She might be busy or perhaps she's got the flu or so. 2 weeks isn't really that much time!

 

[kingofsorrow]

your right. i know i'll probably get stupified and tongue tied when i see her again.

 

[The Sad Punk]

Definitely sounds like code! So you going rock climbing this weekend?

I will be checking this thread constantly occasionally for an update

*jumpsintocoldshower*

Unfortunately, I'm not, I came back home to visit my family instead. I kind of had to. Maybe next weekend.

Anyway, as I said - he does have a girlfriend, and of course I don't want to get involved with that. That would be real schmucky of me. We're friends right now, nothing more.






argh goddammit