I feel like I'm in the same boat as you COBL_04
I'm 16 and have never had a girlfriend, never 'got together' with anyone...yet some of my friends have...
One of them came back from their girlfriend's house one weekend and we were all sat down watching the TV and he just starts going on about all the 'stuff' they got up to while he was away...and they got all "Oh, wait...maybe Gareth doesn't want to listen to this...?"
damn bloody right I don't want to hear about it, it's not really something I'll just chat about off the cuff like that, and I'm
certain his girlfriend wouldn't want him to be bragging to his mates about all that...
but still, it annoys me how they assume I'm some weird kid who goes 'EUGH!
GIRLS!!' before covering my ears and running from the room screaming!
i'm hoping things will pan out in the future, but don't to worry about 'being behind' in the whole relationship stake. Don't let what other people are doing give you an idea of how you should be living your life!
The best thing you can do is just give it time! Good things come to those who wait, etc. etc.
Get to know people better, you're bound to find someone you like and will know well in a friendly way, what better way to start a relationship?
That way you're people who like each other for who you are, not just people diving into a relationship based purely on looks, only to find you have nothing in common. (Not saying those around YOU are like that, but too many people I know just say "Ooh, (s)he's sexy. I'll ask her out." Kissing and heavy petting ensues but when it comes down to conversation, they can't stand each other's interests, have nothing to say and the relationship crumbles to dust in an instant!)
in conclusion [sorry i've wittered on] don't feel like you're being left behind...people around you are just running into things FAR too quickly, unless you know a couple who have been seeing each other for quite a long time and are genuinely in love etc. Everyone's different, so if it takes you and I another five years to get a girlfriend, then so be it. You'll be the one laughing when you've found a nice, genuine person you know is right for you, while those who just rushed into things will be sitting around with erecticle dysfunction and thinning hair...!