bono_212
Blue Crack Distributor
So, today is Thanksgiving. I love Thanksgiving. A lot. I mean, from the days leading up to it until New Year's Eve, I am just the happiest mofo on Earth. I didn't get a lot of sleep last night because of the set-list thread, I was just having too much fun, and because of the Macy's Parade.
The point is, when I arrived at my aunt's for Thanksgiving lunch, I was greeted at the door by one of my young second cousin's in my face going, "Tiffany's getting married and S-- and S-- are going to be in it, and you won't let me be in your wedding and now Tiffany won't let me be in her wedding and why won't anyone let me be in their weddings." Well, this cousin has righteously pissed me off over the last few months because I wouldn't let her be my flower girl, and I was really tired, so finally I snapped at her and said, "Because you are TOO OLD H--." She's 9, she really is too hold to be a Flower Girl.
Anyways, then I go downstairs and my favorite aunt comes up to me quickly and whispers, "Did you hear about Tiffany?" And I just kind of wave her off because, I'm just like whatever at that point.
So then I walk up to one of my cousin's and she says, "I can't believe Tiffany did that. February 19th, are you serious?" And THAT was when I got pissed off. Because that is one week to the day after the Trashley wedding (for those not in the know, LemonMelon and I's wedding).
Let me go back and explain a bit. My mother and my Aunt Janina have been friends for ever. Let me rephrase that, My mom and Aunt Janina were friends until Aunt Janina married my uncle and became a major insane control freak over his entire life and her kid's lives. For some reason, from that point, Janina's been insanely competitive with my mother. To the point that when my mom announced to the family back in February that Travis and I were getting married, she turned to her oldest daughter and gave her the look of death. Not three week's later, Her oldest daughter and 5-year boyfriend were engaged and getting married in May. Whatever, I don't care, they've been together forever, she can be as petty as she wants.
Everything was fine, it seemed at that point. In Janina's crazy mind she and mom were even, I thought. See, her younger daughter (of the two of them) is 17 years old. She is with a different guy every week, and honestly, just wants to move out. The idea that she's engaged at all is the biggest joke I've ever heard, especially because she really and truly is apparently not pregnant.
I can't understand why anyone would stoop so low as to schedule a wedding a week after someone else's in your own damn family. I mean, how bad can you get? I felt good though because all throughout lunch people were coming up to me and making sure I knew that my wedding was the priority, and I really appreciated.
I don't usually complain about stuff like this on here, I'm just really frustrated and I can't be too open about it IRL, because, everyone's family, you know? I mean, my family's huge, we hang out together a lot.
I hope I'M not coming across as petty. The wedding probably won't even happen, but in the meanwhile, I just can't believe this. The real kicker is that apparently she was going to try and have it ON February 12th. She even texted me and my sister to check when the date of my wedding was. No, the real kicker was finding out that Janina had done this to one of my older cousin's when she got married. She'd buy things for her older daughter's wedding whenever Ann would get something for her wedding. Or she'd talk over Ann when discussing plan's for her wedding. And her daughter wasn't even ENGAGED at the time.
Gah, it just has me so mad. Anyways, venting's over. Sorry for the rambly nature here. I'm really running on fumes at this point and need to get a few hours of rest before Black Friday
The point is, when I arrived at my aunt's for Thanksgiving lunch, I was greeted at the door by one of my young second cousin's in my face going, "Tiffany's getting married and S-- and S-- are going to be in it, and you won't let me be in your wedding and now Tiffany won't let me be in her wedding and why won't anyone let me be in their weddings." Well, this cousin has righteously pissed me off over the last few months because I wouldn't let her be my flower girl, and I was really tired, so finally I snapped at her and said, "Because you are TOO OLD H--." She's 9, she really is too hold to be a Flower Girl.
Anyways, then I go downstairs and my favorite aunt comes up to me quickly and whispers, "Did you hear about Tiffany?" And I just kind of wave her off because, I'm just like whatever at that point.
So then I walk up to one of my cousin's and she says, "I can't believe Tiffany did that. February 19th, are you serious?" And THAT was when I got pissed off. Because that is one week to the day after the Trashley wedding (for those not in the know, LemonMelon and I's wedding).
Let me go back and explain a bit. My mother and my Aunt Janina have been friends for ever. Let me rephrase that, My mom and Aunt Janina were friends until Aunt Janina married my uncle and became a major insane control freak over his entire life and her kid's lives. For some reason, from that point, Janina's been insanely competitive with my mother. To the point that when my mom announced to the family back in February that Travis and I were getting married, she turned to her oldest daughter and gave her the look of death. Not three week's later, Her oldest daughter and 5-year boyfriend were engaged and getting married in May. Whatever, I don't care, they've been together forever, she can be as petty as she wants.
Everything was fine, it seemed at that point. In Janina's crazy mind she and mom were even, I thought. See, her younger daughter (of the two of them) is 17 years old. She is with a different guy every week, and honestly, just wants to move out. The idea that she's engaged at all is the biggest joke I've ever heard, especially because she really and truly is apparently not pregnant.
I can't understand why anyone would stoop so low as to schedule a wedding a week after someone else's in your own damn family. I mean, how bad can you get? I felt good though because all throughout lunch people were coming up to me and making sure I knew that my wedding was the priority, and I really appreciated.
I don't usually complain about stuff like this on here, I'm just really frustrated and I can't be too open about it IRL, because, everyone's family, you know? I mean, my family's huge, we hang out together a lot.
I hope I'M not coming across as petty. The wedding probably won't even happen, but in the meanwhile, I just can't believe this. The real kicker is that apparently she was going to try and have it ON February 12th. She even texted me and my sister to check when the date of my wedding was. No, the real kicker was finding out that Janina had done this to one of my older cousin's when she got married. She'd buy things for her older daughter's wedding whenever Ann would get something for her wedding. Or she'd talk over Ann when discussing plan's for her wedding. And her daughter wasn't even ENGAGED at the time.
Gah, it just has me so mad. Anyways, venting's over. Sorry for the rambly nature here. I'm really running on fumes at this point and need to get a few hours of rest before Black Friday
@ "Trashley" That's awesome.
that's good then.
So sad she is playing the victim. Regardless of her sad little thoughts ( families are a funny thing 
) I hope you and LM have the most awesome wedding day. Sounds like you are really happy together and have a lot of family ( and friends ) happy for you. 
I'll run those options by Lemel, but I think we're fairly settled on our first dance song already. 
