MandyMarie
Acrobat
I'm looking for advice in relation to my five year old daughter's sudden habit of stealing.
A week or so ago, my daughter came home with about five band-aids and said the teacher said she could have them. So I didn't think anything of it. A couple of days later, she came home with about 10 more band-aids, so I questioned her and found out that she took them without permission. So I gave her a nice little talk about stealing, and also wrote a note to the teacher and asked her to talk to my daughter as well. Now a couple of days ago, she came home with a set of toy binoculars, which she said a friend let her borrow. I told her to make sure that she gave them back the next day. In the morning, I found her trying to sneak toys to school. The next day (yesterday) I was at school to pick her up when the teacher came to talk to me. She said my daughter was caught trying to take a brownie at lunch and hiding it under her tray and under her shirt. When we got home, I saw a Hello Kitty calculator in her bookbag. She said the same friend let her borrow it. After questioning, she admitted that she took it from her friend. So we had a long talk and she was grounded. I also wrote a note to the teacher telling her about the calculator, and asking her to have a counselor talk to my daughter. The teacher called me this morning and said that the calculator belonged to herself, and she asked the friend if she had given it to my daughter, the friend said no. This all makes me wonder about a few other little toys my daughter supposedly brought home from playing 'Bingo'.
This behavior is very unlike my daughter, or at least I thought so. This has all happened within a week/week and a half. I am concerned, and I wonder if there may be a bigger issue hidden beneath this problem. Is it somewhat common for children of this age to go through this. it's my first time dealing with this. I have three kids ages 5, 2, and 1, and a step daughter aged 12 in the home, so I am always telling them not to take toys that do not belong to them. I worry that this habit may become a part of her personality. I'm not even sure how to discipline her, so for now she is grounded from her tv for a week. Any thoughts??
A week or so ago, my daughter came home with about five band-aids and said the teacher said she could have them. So I didn't think anything of it. A couple of days later, she came home with about 10 more band-aids, so I questioned her and found out that she took them without permission. So I gave her a nice little talk about stealing, and also wrote a note to the teacher and asked her to talk to my daughter as well. Now a couple of days ago, she came home with a set of toy binoculars, which she said a friend let her borrow. I told her to make sure that she gave them back the next day. In the morning, I found her trying to sneak toys to school. The next day (yesterday) I was at school to pick her up when the teacher came to talk to me. She said my daughter was caught trying to take a brownie at lunch and hiding it under her tray and under her shirt. When we got home, I saw a Hello Kitty calculator in her bookbag. She said the same friend let her borrow it. After questioning, she admitted that she took it from her friend. So we had a long talk and she was grounded. I also wrote a note to the teacher telling her about the calculator, and asking her to have a counselor talk to my daughter. The teacher called me this morning and said that the calculator belonged to herself, and she asked the friend if she had given it to my daughter, the friend said no. This all makes me wonder about a few other little toys my daughter supposedly brought home from playing 'Bingo'.
This behavior is very unlike my daughter, or at least I thought so. This has all happened within a week/week and a half. I am concerned, and I wonder if there may be a bigger issue hidden beneath this problem. Is it somewhat common for children of this age to go through this. it's my first time dealing with this. I have three kids ages 5, 2, and 1, and a step daughter aged 12 in the home, so I am always telling them not to take toys that do not belong to them. I worry that this habit may become a part of her personality. I'm not even sure how to discipline her, so for now she is grounded from her tv for a week. Any thoughts??