Nobody likes it when their heart is being fucked with. And everything breaks down when people begin lieing to each other. That is a horrible situation.
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theblazer said:
Yup, sounds like college to me.
Come on man, this happens to the majority of "Christian" high school students who go away to college. "What, booze, horny people my age, more booze, no parents?" They don't usually ask "What Would Jesus Do?" in those cases.
That's one of the things that I'm really not looking forward to in college. Everyone talks about how great it is, but not one person I know has defied this scenerio, or at least a similar version of it.
I mean, last week, I was talking to a good friend from HS, who was talking all serious about how she didn't want to get into a relatoinship, that there were tons of great guys, but she didn't want one. She used solid logic, and she seemed content with her current state of friends and stuff. And she's a solid girl, very well grounded and stuff. She actually lectured ME about realtionships in college, and what was going on, and what she did and did not want to be a part of. But yeah...... she definitely was a good Christian girl, from a conservative family.
This week, I talk to her (mind you, we're good friends, and I really don't have any intentions of anything more than that, especially because she's in S Carolina now, and I'm in NY), and she subtely drops that she's got a "bf" now, etc....
Honeslty, I'm happy for her.
But in terms of this thread......
Kids are such loads of bullshit. Yes, my generation. I am not good friends with anyone my age or younger, mostly because I can't stand this sort of thing. It's so tiring, boring, and reptitive. (and I know it's not really "my generation", it's all young people who go through these stages and such). No doubt, I'm sure I'll fall into some stupid trap, too, because I haven't learned my lessons yet, but... as I said, I do not know anyone who has not falllen into this sort of catagory, or similar.
Unfortunately, shart, this sort of thing is common. I hope it doesn't make you a bitter, isolated person though. I think sometimes people forget how couragous one needs to be to seek love, the truer, lasting kinds that is. Everybody is destined to make mistakes, too, and such a thing should also be remembered...........