I have a tendency to ...

[Angel]

... fall for my friends significant others.

I can think of at least three occasions where this has happened. Thankfully it has never become a problem, or jeopardized any friendships... but wtf? My latest obsession is with my co-workers beau. We spent a good portion of Saturday night chatting, just me and him.... the whole time I am like "he's my friends guy, he's my friends guy".

Damn. What is my problem? I end up having more in common with these guys, then I do with my friends sometimes.... Why couldn't I have found them first? lol Anyway........... at least my friends found happiness! Yay for them!

 

[bonosloveslave]

What about your boss?

 

[Angel]

He's married!!!!!!!!!!

*His wife is not my friend he doesn't count.

Oh gawd... what if I am turning into one of those women who only go for married guys? I don't think that's it. I think my friends just have really good taste. I mean... they picked me! haha

 

[MissVelvetDress_75]

angel

 

[Sicy]

What was he doing out with you?

 

[Angel]

It was a big group thing for work. Oh gawd..... it wasn't like that. I am not a bad person!!!

 

[U2girl]

 

[sulawesigirl4]

Well as long as you can keep it harmless on the outside, regardless of what you may feel on the inside. I imagine it's not worth wrecking friendships over guys who may or may not turn out to be mr. right.

Sometimes I find that when someone is "taken" there is less pressure being around them, so I can let my guard down and feel more myself. That can lead to a false sense of knowing that person better than I might if I we were both single and kinda scoping each other out.

 

[zonelistener]

A letter to the ladies of Interference:

Keep your boyfriends/husbands away from Angel.

Yours Truly,