Russty Cat
Rock n' Roll Doggie FOB
I've been with Mr. Cat for almost ten years now. In the beginning his parents where rather nice caring people. But I didn't always agree with the way they viewed things or how they choose to live their life. I tried to be respectful and nice as long as they weren't hurting me or pushing their views on me. As years have gone on they have gotten worse. They don't like alot of things I do like take holidays with my girlfriends once a year to see concerts or spend the weekend at my girlfriends so we can eat pizza, be silly, and watch music videos of U2 and Pearl Jam. Totally harmless and Mr. Cat doesn't mind at all and always makes sure to take care of our kids while I'm gone so I don't have to worry about them. He is a great father and loves spending time with our kids.
Over the last year my in laws have become worse and worse. They make snide comments and tell me what I should be doing as a parent and then state that once they move near us don't plan on them being a babysitter for us. Hello they are your grand kids! I have never said I would expect them to babysit, but I thought once in a while they would like to be involved in their grandkids lives. I thought this was the point of them moving near us. So they have been here for 2 solid weeks. We have seen them twice in that whole time. My daughter who is 7 has been asking why "daddies parents" as she has started calling them instead of grandma and grandpa, don't like her and don't want to see her? It was her birthday on Monday. Did they come see her or bring her a gift? Nope. I tried to distract her so she didn't realize they didn't come over, but she still brought it up.
I got a phone call today that was the final straw. It was my SIL who wanted to know what she had done to make our in laws not like them anymore? She was thinking that because her sons are from a previous marriage that maybe they didn't want to be as involved with them since they weren't their biological grand children. She was very upset and feels that somehow she has done something wrong. I assured her that it wasn't her or the kids. That my in laws are just big jerks.
I just don't get how these two people who use to make such a big deal about family don't want to be part of these great little kids lives. I could care less about me, but don't dick around with my kids emotions. They make a big deal about coming here and get these kids all excited and then treat them like complete crap. I'm tired of it and I swear when they come by tomorrow to say bye as they leave town it will take every ounce of strength I have not to just go off on them. I swear I wish there was some way to just get rid of them all together, everyone in this family would be so much better.
Over the last year my in laws have become worse and worse. They make snide comments and tell me what I should be doing as a parent and then state that once they move near us don't plan on them being a babysitter for us. Hello they are your grand kids! I have never said I would expect them to babysit, but I thought once in a while they would like to be involved in their grandkids lives. I thought this was the point of them moving near us. So they have been here for 2 solid weeks. We have seen them twice in that whole time. My daughter who is 7 has been asking why "daddies parents" as she has started calling them instead of grandma and grandpa, don't like her and don't want to see her? It was her birthday on Monday. Did they come see her or bring her a gift? Nope. I tried to distract her so she didn't realize they didn't come over, but she still brought it up.
I got a phone call today that was the final straw. It was my SIL who wanted to know what she had done to make our in laws not like them anymore? She was thinking that because her sons are from a previous marriage that maybe they didn't want to be as involved with them since they weren't their biological grand children. She was very upset and feels that somehow she has done something wrong. I assured her that it wasn't her or the kids. That my in laws are just big jerks.
I just don't get how these two people who use to make such a big deal about family don't want to be part of these great little kids lives. I could care less about me, but don't dick around with my kids emotions. They make a big deal about coming here and get these kids all excited and then treat them like complete crap. I'm tired of it and I swear when they come by tomorrow to say bye as they leave town it will take every ounce of strength I have not to just go off on them. I swear I wish there was some way to just get rid of them all together, everyone in this family would be so much better.