AcrobatMan
Rock n' Roll Doggie
Be it school, college or the company.
Random sample incident .
Rewind back to 1992, In my school days, we used to get ranks after exam ( academics - maths, science, economics etc etc).. like 1st , 2nd , 5th and so.. There were 50 guys . I used to be 1st for 5 or 6 years in a row. There was another guy who was something like 7th three years back , then next year he was 3rd and the last year he was 2nd.
So when the announcement for ranks came - it was done in decending order. so only 2 ranks remained..1st and 2nd..and 2 people ..me and that guy.. The teacher asked who do you think is 1st ? The whole class shouted that guy's name. My heart sank. I had done nothing wrong. Helped anyone who asked me anything. I was a bit unsocial but that was all. I should have got atleast 25% of the voice vote but all i got was of 2-3 guys who were my real friends. I still got 1st but I realised how unpopular I was. Since then at all place - same thing happens. I talk less ( sometimes blunt -something i need to work on ) and dont mingle around. So I think I'm not popular. Sometime when I try to mingle , I overdo it.I ask things which i shouldnt and which is not considered ok. Thats my problem.
But probably things arent as bad as I have written, probably
people see me more as un-social. But surely i am one of the least popular person wherever I go.
Any ideas on how to become popular
AcrobatMan
Random sample incident .
Rewind back to 1992, In my school days, we used to get ranks after exam ( academics - maths, science, economics etc etc).. like 1st , 2nd , 5th and so.. There were 50 guys . I used to be 1st for 5 or 6 years in a row. There was another guy who was something like 7th three years back , then next year he was 3rd and the last year he was 2nd.
So when the announcement for ranks came - it was done in decending order. so only 2 ranks remained..1st and 2nd..and 2 people ..me and that guy.. The teacher asked who do you think is 1st ? The whole class shouted that guy's name. My heart sank. I had done nothing wrong. Helped anyone who asked me anything. I was a bit unsocial but that was all. I should have got atleast 25% of the voice vote but all i got was of 2-3 guys who were my real friends. I still got 1st but I realised how unpopular I was. Since then at all place - same thing happens. I talk less ( sometimes blunt -something i need to work on ) and dont mingle around. So I think I'm not popular. Sometime when I try to mingle , I overdo it.I ask things which i shouldnt and which is not considered ok. Thats my problem.
But probably things arent as bad as I have written, probably
people see me more as un-social. But surely i am one of the least popular person wherever I go.
Any ideas on how to become popular
AcrobatMan