katiefilete
Babyface
- Joined
- Dec 23, 2005
- Messages
- 9
I think I have got a mental health problem. I know it will sound like I am making excuses for behaving like a moron, but please bear with me as I desperately need to sort myself out.
First - I blame nobody else for my behaviour but myself. I am stuck in some stupid self-destructive habit that I must break. I have been here for half my life now.
When I was 14 something hideous happened to me. This was a small town and the entire school was talking about this incident (which I never told anyone about but my 'best friend', who rang up the local radio station problem line and broadcast my nightmare to everyone.) For 2 years they made my life hell with nonstop bullying in and out of class, over something that was not my fault and never spoke to them about. I was on the verge of suicide... I started skipping school, despite having always been a straigh-A student, because I could not face the constant torment.
Since then I have had a problem with absence and motivation.
I wanted to go to university from the age of 12 but when I got there I didn't attend many lessons. Got a good degree but caused myself a lot of problems by this stupid absence. This was partly due to chronic insomnia but also due to me being a prat and not turning up.
The same thing is going on now. I initially did very well in my career after uni, but now it is always the same. I have lost several good jobs because I can't get my act together enough to get to work and get on with it.
How do I break out of this stupid, pointless, destructive cycle?? I know it sounds ridiculous, but I am desperate. Please help?
First - I blame nobody else for my behaviour but myself. I am stuck in some stupid self-destructive habit that I must break. I have been here for half my life now.
When I was 14 something hideous happened to me. This was a small town and the entire school was talking about this incident (which I never told anyone about but my 'best friend', who rang up the local radio station problem line and broadcast my nightmare to everyone.) For 2 years they made my life hell with nonstop bullying in and out of class, over something that was not my fault and never spoke to them about. I was on the verge of suicide... I started skipping school, despite having always been a straigh-A student, because I could not face the constant torment.
Since then I have had a problem with absence and motivation.
I wanted to go to university from the age of 12 but when I got there I didn't attend many lessons. Got a good degree but caused myself a lot of problems by this stupid absence. This was partly due to chronic insomnia but also due to me being a prat and not turning up.
The same thing is going on now. I initially did very well in my career after uni, but now it is always the same. I have lost several good jobs because I can't get my act together enough to get to work and get on with it.
How do I break out of this stupid, pointless, destructive cycle?? I know it sounds ridiculous, but I am desperate. Please help?