maycocksean
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I think a buddy of mind is mentally ill. I've dealt with schizophrenia before. . .my brother is schizophrenic. . .but this is different somehow. My brother had been acting strangely for a long while and we just thought he was extraordinarily shy or just mad at the world. . .we just kind of thought that's just how he was. It wasn't until his first serious break with reality that we realized he was sick, and when that happened I was living on the other side of the world. By the time I next saw him he'd already been hospitalized a few times and was on medication so we never had to have the "I think you're not well" conversation. After a couple of really trying years of him not taking his meds consistently and getting into all kinds of trouble he finally got into a good program and is doing really well now.
But my friend is a whole nother story. I'm catching this at the outset. He'd said a few "strange" things this past summer but otherwise seemed normal. This past Saturday he stopped by my house and seemed definitely down about something. He revealed that he'd quit his job teaching at the local public middle school because he'd heard that students who don't like you who have connections on the island (we live on a small island in the Pacific) will make sure your reputation is ruined and you can never "work in this town again." Apparently he had some students who didn't like him and he wanted to quit before they started stirring stuff up to ruin him. I thought that was quite awful and I'd never heard of that happening before. But the school he teaches at is known to be quite rough and our local politicians are highly corrupt so I didn't think it was "crazy talk" at the time. He also mentioned his wife was really upset about him quitting his job.
Well, Wednesday, I talked to him and he told me he was going to the Philippines. He wasn't being very forthcoming about why but eventually he revealed that his wife had taken their daughter and left him. He went on to say this was "top secret" but he believed she was with a cult. He added that "they" were probably monitoring him right now and if I should see "them" I was not to tell them anything or let "them" know that I had talked to him. He never bothered to specify exactly who "them" was, which I found as disturbing as anything else he said. By this time alarms were going off. So he went to the Philippines on Weds. to presumably look for his wife (I now have reason to believe she's probably still here on our island).
Well, here's the thing, he's coming back tonight and I have no idea what to say to him. Do I just keep going along with this or do I tell him: "I think you may be imagining things?" I just don't know what to do! Anyone have any thoughts?
But my friend is a whole nother story. I'm catching this at the outset. He'd said a few "strange" things this past summer but otherwise seemed normal. This past Saturday he stopped by my house and seemed definitely down about something. He revealed that he'd quit his job teaching at the local public middle school because he'd heard that students who don't like you who have connections on the island (we live on a small island in the Pacific) will make sure your reputation is ruined and you can never "work in this town again." Apparently he had some students who didn't like him and he wanted to quit before they started stirring stuff up to ruin him. I thought that was quite awful and I'd never heard of that happening before. But the school he teaches at is known to be quite rough and our local politicians are highly corrupt so I didn't think it was "crazy talk" at the time. He also mentioned his wife was really upset about him quitting his job.
Well, Wednesday, I talked to him and he told me he was going to the Philippines. He wasn't being very forthcoming about why but eventually he revealed that his wife had taken their daughter and left him. He went on to say this was "top secret" but he believed she was with a cult. He added that "they" were probably monitoring him right now and if I should see "them" I was not to tell them anything or let "them" know that I had talked to him. He never bothered to specify exactly who "them" was, which I found as disturbing as anything else he said. By this time alarms were going off. So he went to the Philippines on Weds. to presumably look for his wife (I now have reason to believe she's probably still here on our island).
Well, here's the thing, he's coming back tonight and I have no idea what to say to him. Do I just keep going along with this or do I tell him: "I think you may be imagining things?" I just don't know what to do! Anyone have any thoughts?