bigjohn2441
Refugee
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Okay, here's what I would do: I wouldn't fall all over myself trying to explain away any odd behaviour on the date. She already knows you socially, and if you came across badly on the date, chances are she'll know it was nerves.
I also wouldn't contact her the minute she said it was okay to (she told you to text in a week or something?). If you don't hear from her first, and if you feel you must talk to her, give it a few days or a week after that. And then when you do contact her, don't ask for a date, play it a bit cooler than that. Is there any excuse you'd possibly have to contact her that's not date-related? Something you want to tell her about a common interest? Something interesting happening at school? Even if it's just that you wanted to check in to say hi to her, and see how things are going. Keep it casual. See how she reacts to that - does she seem warm and friendly, or is she acting cool toward you?
With me, being relentlessly pursued by someone I'm ambivalent about is a huge turn off.
couldnt've said it better myself.