The_acrobat
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I have been married for a year and a half, and so far, it's going pretty well! We respect each other, we enjoy doing things together, and yet we understand that each other has personal interests and seperate circles of friends, so we encourage each other to go out with our friends (Yes, no kids yet.)
The problem is with my friends. Ever since I got married, I'm suddenly out of the loop. I got married when I was 26. I had my wild college years, getting drunk every weekend (sometimes every night), Road trips, chasing girls around, etc. But then I graduated college, got a job, bought a house, got married, etc. I have real bills to pay, real stress to worry about. A lot of my single friends still go out to bars, continue hitting on college girls, and continue to live with their parents and have not a care in the world. I know I'm not a wet blanket. I still like a few beers, but I don't like the idea of getting wasted and being sick everywhere. I don't do shots anymore, I don't chain smoke when I drink anymore, and I don't really like all the moronic 21 year old girls that my 28 year old friends are drooling all over. These are the same guys I used to have everything in common with, and now I have nothing in common with them.
They act like me getting married, growing up and taking on adult responsibility is lame. They all brag about not having to worry about any bills (live with parents), and how they can stay out all night (no jobs) without any consequences. I have married friends also, but some of these guys I've been friends with my entire life. I don't want to lose them, but if I don't want to go with them to bars so they can hit on young girls, they don't want anything to do with me. Anybody else experienced anything like this?
The problem is with my friends. Ever since I got married, I'm suddenly out of the loop. I got married when I was 26. I had my wild college years, getting drunk every weekend (sometimes every night), Road trips, chasing girls around, etc. But then I graduated college, got a job, bought a house, got married, etc. I have real bills to pay, real stress to worry about. A lot of my single friends still go out to bars, continue hitting on college girls, and continue to live with their parents and have not a care in the world. I know I'm not a wet blanket. I still like a few beers, but I don't like the idea of getting wasted and being sick everywhere. I don't do shots anymore, I don't chain smoke when I drink anymore, and I don't really like all the moronic 21 year old girls that my 28 year old friends are drooling all over. These are the same guys I used to have everything in common with, and now I have nothing in common with them.
They act like me getting married, growing up and taking on adult responsibility is lame. They all brag about not having to worry about any bills (live with parents), and how they can stay out all night (no jobs) without any consequences. I have married friends also, but some of these guys I've been friends with my entire life. I don't want to lose them, but if I don't want to go with them to bars so they can hit on young girls, they don't want anything to do with me. Anybody else experienced anything like this?