Renne
War Child
Sometimes people have trouble accepting that when I say "no" to them buying me something alcoholic, I actually mean "no".
It's reached the point where the only people I'll go out for on a night on the town with is those of my friends who I know understand why I don't drink anymore, and while they might offer to buy me something, they'll also accept without question if I just want water or soft drink.
I don't want to have to stop and explain why I don't drink anymore every time someone pressures me into having a drink. I mean, half the time they don't even say okay when I say no, they put the full peer pressure thing in action. You know, "Come onnnn, you know you want to."
No, actually, I don't. I don't do peer pressure.
Accept it that when I say no, I mean no. I don't mean "if you bug me about it, I'll say 'sure!' to shut you up." And the rare times I will have a drink? I do on my own terms.
People frustrate me.
It's reached the point where the only people I'll go out for on a night on the town with is those of my friends who I know understand why I don't drink anymore, and while they might offer to buy me something, they'll also accept without question if I just want water or soft drink.
I don't want to have to stop and explain why I don't drink anymore every time someone pressures me into having a drink. I mean, half the time they don't even say okay when I say no, they put the full peer pressure thing in action. You know, "Come onnnn, you know you want to."
No, actually, I don't. I don't do peer pressure.
Accept it that when I say no, I mean no. I don't mean "if you bug me about it, I'll say 'sure!' to shut you up." And the rare times I will have a drink? I do on my own terms.
People frustrate me.