mad1
ONE love, blood, life
seriously, if I did it to u.......how would u feel?
I need to know in case Im making pple uncomfortable or making a pr*ckadoodle of myself.
But, sometimes, and when I do this Im not doing it in 'Im finding u very attractive today' no: men are an ulimate must-have item! ), in changing rooms, I find myself watching other women try on things and then going over and saying (if it looks ok to) tings like 'that suits you very well' or 'I think the other colour is better' or even 'maybe with a blah blah, and skirt or blah'......ya know?
Its like, I enjoy trying, and want to help a person who is on their own look for clothes for themselves........
tell me, am I being mad?
should I stop and restrain myself?
Am I embarrassing them?
or myself................:
it doesnt happen very often but if it does, I generally get a 'thanks' or 'what do u think?'.........but, suddenly, after saying to two American girls last night (I was in Lush and they talked about a specific smelly do-da), I joined in for a moment, asking if theyd used it........and they said yea they have it and continued on............silent after I spoke to them,,,,,,,i felt a complete prat but didnt exit quickly through shame...........
I just realised that.........maybe Im becoming a pr*ck.....Im not trying to act like 'the person who can change someones life'.....its just, I know what its like to be alone in looking and trying things, and I guess I feel happy to try and give my opinion, or help......just bein me.........
but Im being ridiculous - right?
I know some pple are fine with it, perhaps........appreciate it - BUT I STRESS AGAIN IM NOTACTING LIKE I CAN CHANGE THE WORLD!!!!!! - its important u all know that....
maybe others just, dismiss......its the way they are, they dont need help - fine my me really.....!
I dont mind
and believe it or not! Id actually LOVE to be able to go into the Mens changin room and help them!
please, if u say I am.....feel free.................I just wonder if Im making myself more abnormal....
Ive prob jinxed the whole situation now Ive spoken about it!
I need to know in case Im making pple uncomfortable or making a pr*ckadoodle of myself.
But, sometimes, and when I do this Im not doing it in 'Im finding u very attractive today' no: men are an ulimate must-have item! ), in changing rooms, I find myself watching other women try on things and then going over and saying (if it looks ok to) tings like 'that suits you very well' or 'I think the other colour is better' or even 'maybe with a blah blah, and skirt or blah'......ya know?
Its like, I enjoy trying, and want to help a person who is on their own look for clothes for themselves........
tell me, am I being mad?
should I stop and restrain myself?
Am I embarrassing them?
or myself................:
it doesnt happen very often but if it does, I generally get a 'thanks' or 'what do u think?'.........but, suddenly, after saying to two American girls last night (I was in Lush and they talked about a specific smelly do-da), I joined in for a moment, asking if theyd used it........and they said yea they have it and continued on............silent after I spoke to them,,,,,,,i felt a complete prat but didnt exit quickly through shame...........
I just realised that.........maybe Im becoming a pr*ck.....Im not trying to act like 'the person who can change someones life'.....its just, I know what its like to be alone in looking and trying things, and I guess I feel happy to try and give my opinion, or help......just bein me.........
but Im being ridiculous - right?
I know some pple are fine with it, perhaps........appreciate it - BUT I STRESS AGAIN IM NOTACTING LIKE I CAN CHANGE THE WORLD!!!!!! - its important u all know that....
maybe others just, dismiss......its the way they are, they dont need help - fine my me really.....!
I dont mind
and believe it or not! Id actually LOVE to be able to go into the Mens changin room and help them!
please, if u say I am.....feel free.................I just wonder if Im making myself more abnormal....
Ive prob jinxed the whole situation now Ive spoken about it!
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