fly so high!
Refugee
Or Dads.....or anybody else that has kids in a sport.....or anyone that was a kid in a team sport...or a coach of a team sport!
I'm not sure if i'm doing the right thing for my little fella, Reece.My son is 5....will be 6 in July....and i have enrolled him in his second season of Soccer....his first comp game was today......and he did not play the whole second half.....he told me that he can't run fast and that "Seb" & "Jackson" are just too good and they get to have the ball all the time......he has had already 4 trial games and all he does is carry on like a goose!,tickling the opponents,tickling his team mates,plays in the dirt.....the ball comes to him and he just looks at it....does not even attempt to kick it.....I get the impression he does not like Soccer, even though he gets upset if i threaten to pull him out of soccer training/soccer games if he does not start going after the ball.
I don't know how to motivate him, the coaches (Dads of some the "strong" players) are friends of mine and they say he is fine give him time, but i'm not sure they are just saying that because they don't want to tell me the truth...that my son is not the "soccer" type......i can see some of the kids are starting to ridicule him,i can see that the coaches are starting to get frustrated and so am i to be frank.........I did not want to enrol him this season but everyone kept telling me next season will be different,Reece himself said he wanted to play again, the coaches said you will see an improvement.......well, i've seen an improvement in the other kids, in all the other kids.......they have been passing the ball,marking players, but not in Reece (except that he has stopped making "grass angels" on the ground!
What should i do? Should i pull him out....I'm concerned for his self-esteem! But i don't want him to think it's OK to give up, just because he feels it's too hard!
Or do i need to relax? Is it that Reece happens to be in a team with more "strong" players than normal and that i'm over re-acting?
I'm not sure if i'm doing the right thing for my little fella, Reece.My son is 5....will be 6 in July....and i have enrolled him in his second season of Soccer....his first comp game was today......and he did not play the whole second half.....he told me that he can't run fast and that "Seb" & "Jackson" are just too good and they get to have the ball all the time......he has had already 4 trial games and all he does is carry on like a goose!,tickling the opponents,tickling his team mates,plays in the dirt.....the ball comes to him and he just looks at it....does not even attempt to kick it.....I get the impression he does not like Soccer, even though he gets upset if i threaten to pull him out of soccer training/soccer games if he does not start going after the ball.
I don't know how to motivate him, the coaches (Dads of some the "strong" players) are friends of mine and they say he is fine give him time, but i'm not sure they are just saying that because they don't want to tell me the truth...that my son is not the "soccer" type......i can see some of the kids are starting to ridicule him,i can see that the coaches are starting to get frustrated and so am i to be frank.........I did not want to enrol him this season but everyone kept telling me next season will be different,Reece himself said he wanted to play again, the coaches said you will see an improvement.......well, i've seen an improvement in the other kids, in all the other kids.......they have been passing the ball,marking players, but not in Reece (except that he has stopped making "grass angels" on the ground!
What should i do? Should i pull him out....I'm concerned for his self-esteem! But i don't want him to think it's OK to give up, just because he feels it's too hard!
Or do i need to relax? Is it that Reece happens to be in a team with more "strong" players than normal and that i'm over re-acting?
Last edited: