I know I'm going from one extreme to another today in FYM, but I came across this article and thought it would make a good discussion. Especially since we have some Dutch FYMers.
Mind Reading: What We Can Learn From the Dutch About Teen Sex – TIME Healthland
I've always believed that a more liberal attitude towards sex would take away the stigma and teens wouldn't be getting pregnant and STIs so often. But at the same time, I could never allow my kids to have sleepovers with their significant others until they're 18.
Also, I like how the woman being interviewed says the Dutch accept that teens could be in love, even teen boys.
Thoughts?
Teen pregnancy rates are eight times higher in the U.S. than in Holland. Abortion rates are 20% higher. The American AIDS rate is three times greater than that of the Dutch. What are they doing right that we're not? For starters, two-thirds of Dutch parents report allowing their teenage children to have sleepovers with their boyfriend or girlfriend, a situation even the most liberal American parents would rarely permit. Is there something Americans should learn from the Dutch about relaxed attitudes toward sex (and drugs — indeed, the Netherlands has more lenient drug laws than the U.S., but three times lower rates of marijuana use)?
Mind Reading: What We Can Learn From the Dutch About Teen Sex – TIME Healthland
I've always believed that a more liberal attitude towards sex would take away the stigma and teens wouldn't be getting pregnant and STIs so often. But at the same time, I could never allow my kids to have sleepovers with their significant others until they're 18.
Also, I like how the woman being interviewed says the Dutch accept that teens could be in love, even teen boys.
Thoughts?