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Teacher Fired for Previously Appearing in Porn
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http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/01/16/stacie-halas-porn-actress-teacher_n_2486138.html?utm_hp_ref=mostpopular One one hand, I almost understand why it may not be a good idea for her to be teaching kids who are discovering sex and won't take her seriously as a teacher. But also, I find it unfair that the school is more upset about her past as a porn star than the kids downloading porn. Should a line be drawn when it comes to second chances and starting over? |
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I read about this earlier today. My take on this is that if one decides to get into porn in any way, be it pro or amateur, they are putting something out for public consumption that can't be taken back. She was only in the industry for 9 months, but that might as well have been a lifetime. Plus, she even mentions she's a teacher in some of the videos. If she wanted to seek employment as a teacher, she should have never done porn. She showed no judgement at all in that regard. In this day and age, middle school kids are going to get their eyes on porn. Especially if they're left unattended in front of a computer or cellular device that gets the internet.
__________________Obviously, the other big deal is the kids viewing the porn. I don't know if there's much anyone can do there except make sure to block these sites or stand over a kid's shoulder while they use the internet. |
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I'm with you, it's a hard line to draw... but in the end I understand the notion that teachers are role models.
I would say maybe she could teach younger kids, ones that didn't know what porn was, but there will always be some irate parents that thought she was somehow endangering their children. There's just some professions that require cleaner records than others ![]() |
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i have to agree. maybe a college professor would've been okay, since all the students (aside from the rare child geniuses) would be adults and not minors. but even if it's a high school teacher, i don't think it's okay because the parents can flip out. and like bvs said, teachers are supposed to be role models. these days it's all too easy for a kid to hop on google and find out what miss halas did before she became a teacher, when the kid might not have even been trying to find the porn in the first place.
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exactly.
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Anyway I think it's unfair she was fired/can't get another teaching job for something in her past, though a bit more tact may not have hurt. |
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Honestly, Danny, if you were 12 and you found out your teacher was a porn "star" would you be able to just look past that?
I'm pretty much in agreement with most that's been said here, it sucks that she got fired for something legal in her past, but it's such a difficult situation.
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I almost think she'd be better off teaching much younger kids, but middle and high school is out.
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If she used her real name in porn, I take it the school district didn't Google her before hiring her? Isn't that what HR is supposed to do these days?
Yeah, she made a bad mistake and poor judgment, and she shouldn't be around adolescent students. I just think its a shame she'll be paying for her mistake for the rest of her life. |
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I think the shame is that she lacked the foresight to realize that if she got into the adult film industry there could possibly be consequences further down the road if she wished to continue to be a teacher. She would have been better off being a prostitute instead. There's usually no cameras around. Unless you're watching HBO's Cathouse (where it's legal) or (gasp) Hookers at Hunts Point.
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From the article posted:
"A middle-school science teacher fired after students learned she had appeared in pornographic movies had hoped not just to get her job back, but to set a precedent for people looking to escape an embarrassing personal history." She has stated that she is trying to escape this time in her life and to give others a chance. How quick we are to throw stones. |
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I've got no problem with her having done porn in the past. I've got no problem with her trying to move on from her "embarrassing" history. I do have a problem with her thinking she would be able to continue as a teacher afterward. A side effect of doing porn is that it's out there forever and you can't take it back. Essentially, her decision to do porn immediately destroyed her future in teaching.
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But knowing how many adults have difficulty with that kind of mercy and forgiveness, I think it's naive to ask that of a middle school child. Can you imagine a middle school girl, who is suppose to look up to her teachers, finding out about her past or even seeing the images? No matter how much you explain that it's the past, I think it's naive to believe that most middle school girls wouldn't be confused by that message. |
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And what adolescent boy would take her seriously as a teacher?
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Something like this sounds a bit more appropriate to *not hire* her due to her history rather than to fire her after finding out. I know they're virtually the same thing... but the former sounds a bit more reasonable.
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I've been part of the hiring process before, and guess what the first thing I did was... Google, facebook, LinkedIn, etc. |
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It's only porn; it's not as if she did anything bad.
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Hey, look! A woman is being shamed for daring to display her sexuality! That never happens anymore.
__________________(I know it's not really black or white, I do agree with some of what's being said, but I also agree with iYup just above me here. And while this was my gut reaction, I can't honestly say that the same thing wouldn't have happened had it been a male teacher.) |
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