Irvine511
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Why was it an intense moment, though. That's my problem here. It shouldn't be like that. There's no reason to get that angry because of an e-mail that was aimed at starting conversation, not telling people to "lighten up". This is not the way people should treat one another.
And I'm sorry, but it was certainly not "unfortunate" that it was caught on camera. She wanted to be heard. She stood in front of a group of people and made herself a spectacle. If she DIDN'T expect that to be filmed, I'd be shocked. Why else do it? THAT is a big thing that bothers me about this.
Ugh, look, I'm not trying to say that passion is misplaced. It's misplaced here, and vilifying anyone isn't necessary. Learning to communicate is. That's all I want to say.
And yes, it's TERRIBLE that the aftermath is what it is. For that, I pity her. I just don't use it to justify her initial actions.
i really think we're holding a very young woman to an impossible standard here. that's been my problem from the beginning -- the pile-on of a young person (angry black woman, entitled millennial) who was caught losing control of her emotions. this wasn't for the media, there was someone with a smartphone who recorded it. i can agree that, within the specifics of this incident, the two are talking past each other, but i don't think her anger is indicative of anything beyond the intensity of identity and identification commonly felt by minorities of all kinds.
all that said, i take your points. you're not asking people to gawk at the entitled millennials. that's what's really irritating to me about this whole thing.