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I have mixed feelings about Euthanasia, but I came here to say that DNRs confuse the hell out of me.

My grandmother has horribly bad emphysema and is in and out of the hospital on a fairly regular basis. She has been placed on a respirator multiple times, in spite of her DNR. I thought they weren't allowed to do that?

The fact is, I'm glad for it, because she has come back every time and every time has recovered to the point of being able to go home.

I hate living in this constant loop of her getting sick/being on the respirator/recovering, but she wants to live and it means I get more time with her, but it get so scared and confused because of the DNR.
 
A DNR at least in the UK basically means you will not carry out CPR on a person who has sustained cardiac or respiratory arrest (Though if I remember correctly our policy on it is based off a US one). It only really concerns the moment of death and that you will not attempt to get them back.

So in the case of your grandmother the exacerbation of her emphysema is something that is short term wise easily treatable and she can be returned to her baseline of fitness before the exacerbation occurred, so very aggressive, active treatment will be given.

What DNRs generally stop at least here is people being escalated to intensive care. What usually happens on my ward is that they may be DNR but we will escalate the care to ICU levels without actually sending them to ICU, so there will be multiple drips, respirators, strong and horrible medications etc (from my own personal perspective it makes life hell on the ward as I am generally looking after 8 patients and if one requires almost ICU levels of care, the rest tend to get neglected).

The worst thing is seeing families come in with loved ones multiple times to the hospital towards the end of life, with the expectation 'is it going to be this time'. Then get sent home again only to repeat it a few weeks later. It is a kind of mental torture, anyway you have my best wishes for your gran.

Just in reference to Anitram, we do have the ability to create Advanced Care Plans where a patient can specify what sort of treatment can be given when they reach the end of life, but most do not know their rights regarding this and are generally completely unaware. Doctors never ever raise this with the patient and I have only ever seen one in effect once in 4 years throughout my training and now as a qualified nurse and even then it was disregarded due to some missing documentation.
 
AchtungBono said:
I am so very very sorry for this poor man's condition but I believe that, instead of wanting to end his life, perhaps he could use his circumstances to help other people in his condition - like Christopher Reeve did.
The article said that his mind isn't affected and his condition isn't terminal so I believe that he should fight on.

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It's none of your business, so it doesn't matter what you think he should do with his life
 
I believe a DNR means they won't use CPR or AED to bring someone back. If she goes in sick and they put her on a respirator, that's different. I suppose she could refuse treatment but that would be different than the DNR. If she went in not breathing and her heart had stopped, *then* the DNR applies.
 
Thanks LJT and Lies. That makes a lot of sense and is what my brain was vaguely assigning was the vcr, so I thank you for the knowledge. It actually helps a lot.
 
It's none of your business, so it doesn't matter what you think he should do with his life

Hi Jive Turkey,

You're right - it ISN'T my business thank G-d almighty.....

We're just having a discussion and I'm voicing my opinion - and that DOES matter on a message board, just like yours does,
 
Hi AchtungBono. Always so polite!

I guess my point is just that it's very patronizing to say to someone so desperate to be relieved of their suffering "no, I think you should do this with your life". Your opinion does matter here. But in the real life situation, no one's should matter but the person suffering
 
Hi AchtungBono. Always so polite!

I guess my point is just that it's very patronizing to say to someone so desperate to be relieved of their suffering "no, I think you should do this with your life". Your opinion does matter here. But in the real life situation, no one's should matter but the person suffering


Gee...thanks....:hug:

Again, you're right - ultimately it is no one's concern what he does.
In any case, I don't mean to be patronizing - I do deeply sympathize with him and hope that somehow his suffering will end - hopefully by treatment.
 
It is curious that we are all in favour of allowing our pets a dignified death when they are suffering beyond comprehension and without any chance for improvement, but when it comes to humans, many of us totally lose all rationality with respect to this debate.

Well, I guess there's the fact that ending an animal's life, for a wide variety of reasons - food, population control, because the pet has become dangerous etc. - is a whole lot more easily accepted in our society.

Euthanasia for me is one of those impossible issues; when I read about the individual cases and people's suffering it just kills your heart, but at the same time the idea of it actually being legalised creeps the hell out of me.
 
I guess I can't really use the pet analogy after all because even as a dog owner/lover/fancier/competitor, I still am outspoken on the issue of pets being property and not "persons" with rights, but that's a loaded topic....
 
Well, I guess there's the fact that ending an animal's life, for a wide variety of reasons - food, population control, because the pet has become dangerous etc. - is a whole lot more easily accepted in our society.

Sure, but I mean specifically in the context of pets who are suffering because they have a terminal illness or have reached end-of-life. The reasons often cited by pet owners are (i) that the wish to spare their pet any further pain and (ii) they want their pet to die with dignity.

It is interesting to me that as a society, particularly in the west, we value individuality and choice - to live our lives the way we see fit. That's why you no longer have defined gender roles and expectations the way you did 200 years ago. But when it comes to death, there is to be no choice. We can live our lives with dignity but we can't end them in dignity. Not saying it's right or wrong one way or another, but it's always been nonsensical to me.
 
Because in euthanasia ending our lives on our terms implicates another person.

That's what makes it complicated.
 
Because in euthanasia ending our lives on our terms implicates another person.

That's what makes it complicated.

That's not really what makes it complicated IMO, because you are never forcing anyone to perform an act. You will always be able to find medical professionals who are in favour of euthanasia to treat those patients. If you take the view that the involvement of third parties is what complicates matters, then why not take that view in respect of abortion?

What complicates it are the regulations that would have to be put in place to ensure that the person who is making the decision to end their life is making it of sound mind, without coercion, not under duress or suffering from depression - in other words, you have fully informed consent.
 
R.I.P.

At least wherever he is now, he is free to talk, to move...
 
Tony Nicklinson, 58, had been refusing food since last week, contracted pneumonia over the weekend, and "went downhill rapidly," said his lawyer, Saimo Chahal.
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Police in the county of Wiltshire, where he lived, said that a doctor had been seeing Nicklinson over the past week, and that they were not investigating the death.
So he did it himself in the end after all, then. And when you live at home and have your family's support I guess you can do that. Well, good for him.
 
yolland said:
So he did it himself in the end after all, then. And when you live at home and have your family's support I guess you can do that. Well, good for him.

It would've been better to receive an injection rather than suffering to the end. But hey, like I said, he is free now.
 
^ It would unquestionably have been better for him, I don't doubt that for a minute. I was mostly thinking about the issue I'd raised in my earlier post, where I pointed out that for Nicklinson's co-petitioner "Martin," even the option of refusing food was denied by the court. But it also seemed clear from the article that "Martin" did not have the support of his family in that aim, and I'm not sure whether he lived at home or not. So perhaps that's the difference. And as far as it goes, I actually found the British court's ruling in "Martin's" case more consistent than the American rulings I cited--if you're going to refuse to grant a patient's death wish (through lethal injection) because carrying it out would implicate the doctor, then I don't see how you can then turn around and say "However, you can ask the doctor to look the other way and do nothing while you preventably starve yourself to death."
That's not really what makes it complicated IMO, because you are never forcing anyone to perform an act. You will always be able to find medical professionals who are in favour of euthanasia to treat those patients. If you take the view that the involvement of third parties is what complicates matters, then why not take that view in respect of abortion?
I have the same reservation Irvine does with active euthanasia, and often make the latter argument (re: abortion) to myself when arguing the issue in my own head. But I have to say I've never found it a fully convincing counter, since it seems to me that--if anything, especially from a pro-choice perspective--it's problematic analogizing the conflict between a doctor's obligation to honor a pregnant woman's autonomy vs. his/her obligation to provide sound prenatal care, to the conflict between a doctor's obligation to honor the autonomy of a mentally competent patient who wishes to die vs. his/her obligation not to knowingly inflict harm on the patient. In the former case (again, from a pro-choice perspective) you aren't killing a patient. The fact that some doctors are willing to euthanize might well be legally significant, noncoercion and all that, but that doesn't resolve the moral significance of their participation.

Emotionally, I would love not to have this hesitation--I read some of these cases and it sounds so humane, feels so much like the right thing to do. But philosophically, I'm still a reluctant agnostic.
 
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The fact that some doctors are willing to euthanize might well be legally significant, noncoercion and all that, but that doesn't resolve the moral significance of their participation.

I'd like to unpack this a bit because I find it interesting (as well as the topic in general).

Whose moral significance are you referring to above? The individual doctor's? Medical doctors who would be willing participants likely see euthanasia as essentially a moral or amoral choice. If you're talking about the medical profession as a whole, you can then flip the argument on its head and say that the "inflict no harm" principle is trampled when patients's lives are forcibly prolonged at potentially great agony or pain, physical and/or mental, for that patient. I won't even bother going into the details of life-saving measures done to keep my grandmother alive maybe 2, 3 weeks longer - the woman died in great suffering and it's very obvious to me that her medical doctors inflicted harm on her (however well-meaning, though paternalistic they may have been). If you're talking about society's views on the morality of a doctor's participation, then I would say I'm glad that society doesn't make those calls because heaven only knows what the populace at large may prioritize.

This is one of those topics that I really, strongly believe that people who have not had a close family friend or relative die in prolonged agony will struggle with a lot more than those of us who saw it first hand. I would have called myself an agnostic like you 10 years ago - not anymore, but that's a result of specific circumstances.
 
This is one of those topics that I really, strongly believe that people who have not had a close family friend or relative die in prolonged agony will struggle with a lot more than those of us who saw it first hand.

amen

I've been thinking about my Grandma a lot as this thread as progressed, as she was and always will be my favorite most cherished person, and I would like to think that if she'd ask me to help her in this way I would have no hesitation and help her to the best of my abilities. I was 26 when she died and remember when an acquaintance asked me if I would cherish the good memories of her instead of her failing health at the end and I said I'd never known my Grandma without pain. As much as I miss her every day I would never call her back to us if I had the choice because almost every inch of her body was in pain for years, and I'm not sitting here using her as an example of why *I* should demand that someone else who I don't know and whose suffering I cannot feel should just buck up and deal. As I said earlier we don't know why she died so quickly (despite the multiple conditions that caused the chronic pain, she wasn't really terminal at that point) but I'd like to think that she went on her own terms. The day she took that turn for the worse we all took turns sitting with her for a while and then the next day I remember walking to buy a lunch and just having this gut feeling that it was finally over and when I got back to my desk my dad was calling to say she had passed. When I was younger I would cry into my pillow imagining how I would ever live without her because I knew even a healthy Grandma won't outlive a healthy grandchild, but when the time came and she passed I didn't shed a tear because I was just so relieved for her suffering to be over.
 
Whose moral significance are you referring to above? The individual doctor's? Medical doctors who would be willing participants likely see euthanasia as essentially a moral or amoral choice. If you're talking about the medical profession as a whole, you can then flip the argument on its head and say that the "inflict no harm" principle is trampled when patients's lives are forcibly prolonged at potentially great agony or pain, physical and/or mental, for that patient.
I guess it would be accurate to say I meant the medical profession as a whole, though the underlying concern is I think a more general one, in that the fact that the person administering the lethal injection would be a doctor isn't per se where the problem lies for me. (For the record, I have similar difficulties arriving at a proper philosophical, 'in principle' stance on capital punishment--despite my rejection of it as practice, since certainty of guilt is often unacceptably lacking--in part because of the necessity for an executioner. But that's a whole other tangent.) I don't know the details of your grandmother's case, but just to be clear, I specified active euthanasia because I'm not talking about e.g. taking someone off a respirator whose prognosis is hopeless, who is clearly in the process of dying (let alone brain-dead) such that all you'd be doing otherwise is prolonging suffering in the face of a readily foreseeable outcome. Tony Nicklinson did not have a life-threatening condition...and I feel awful even typing that, because I fully understand he was suffering emotionally, he himself described his life as "pure torture," and believe me I'd be the last person to glibly point to stories of so-and-so who met a comparable fate with inspiring grace and dignity, yadda yadda as the standard one 'ought to' strive for. Nonetheless, it's true that tetraplegia is not a terminal illness, and so a doctor has only the patient's apparent present emotional state to go by in judging whether s/he would in effect merely be facilitating 'death with dignity' by administering a lethal injection. And I get that for many doctors there'd at the very least be powerful emotional incentive to conclude, Yes that's exactly what this is, because I feel the pull of that too, the guilt and the horror of watching someone else suffer. Still I can't quite square that with the fact that you're asking someone else to kill you, not just to step aside and let fate finish you off rather than wage some hopeless scorched-earth campaign at your expense. To me that's a big difference; I'm troubled by the idea of effectively saying "I agree, better you be dead than live like this, so let me bring that about for you" to someone who isn't already dying, who is confronting not an imminent death but a diminished life. I'm just not certain whether that's ever someone else's place to do, however much it hurts to watch someone suffer. And yes, I realize it isn't always possible to make hard-and-fast pronouncements as to who's in the process of dying and who isn't.
This is one of those topics that I really, strongly believe that people who have not had a close family friend or relative die in prolonged agony will struggle with a lot more than those of us who saw it first hand.
I don't doubt that forever changes the way one looks at it, though my decided impression is that people who have had such experiences don't at all arrive at the same conclusions about euthanasia. But it's true I haven't (yet, anyway) been through that precisely. I did as you know have the experience of watching my brain-injured mother stumble through the last two years of her life as a mental two-year-old continuously bewildered by and often clearly distressed over what was happening to her, which certainly felt like a sick farce to me, and there's no doubt in my mind the woman who raised me would rather have died than lived that life. But I suppose that has no bearing here, since her inability to meaningfully express herself at the time presumably renders both her feelings and mine morally irrelevant to the present discussion.
 
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My mom had to make a similar decision for her mother when the time came. It was the toughest thing she'd done, of course, but she knew it was necessary. And my dad had made it as clear as he possibly could, in writing and vocally, that if something happened to him, he did not want to be in a vegetative state and all that sort of thing. He got particularly stubborn towards the end of his life about going to the doctor and everything (but that was also due to other issues that are a whole other story in and of themselves).

I can definitely see what yolland's saying. If I were a doctor, even if I support the idea of euthanasia, even if I know it would be the best thing for the person who is suffering, it's still a really strange thing to have someone ask you to help kill them. And even if you can deal with that, there's always the fear that you'll have angry family members coming at you, too. It'd be a really tough position to be in, I'd imagine.

Which is why I always say it comes back to the patient themselves. Ultimately, on this issue, I think we should focus on what the person suffering wants above all else. I know that can be a gray area, too, because of the whole "sound mind" issue and all that, but if this is what they say they want, and they've made that clear in writing and everything, I think their wishes should be respected.
 
I don't have really have an issue with it. They were happy, they found a doctor willing to do it. It's very easy for someone from the other side of the world (general, not attacking you) to say that they shouldn't have done it. Sounds like they were inseparable and the blindness would have meant they would not have been able to see each other again, and were already deaf, which would have made work very hard.

It's a grey area, certainly, but I like that the option is there.
 
Normally i am all for euthanasia but this one is a liitle bit interesting. However, suffering is subjective, we can't judge their anguish. they quite probably would have commited suicide anyway.
I have worked in aged and disability care for 15 years now and have seen some good people go through truly terrible end of life stages. I hope when my time comes someone will do the right thing and max out the morphine for me without worrying about going to jail.
 
I'd rather be born deaf and blind than be born deaf and become blind at middle-age. Imagine the reliance on sight. To have that taken from you would be devastating, so I can appreciate where the twins are coming from.

It sounds like euthanasia laws are working in Benelux and are used sparingly enough.
 
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