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I guess I can't really use the pet analogy after all because even as a dog owner/lover/fancier/competitor, I still am outspoken on the issue of pets being property and not "persons" with rights, but that's a loaded topic....
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It is interesting to me that as a society, particularly in the west, we value individuality and choice - to live our lives the way we see fit. That's why you no longer have defined gender roles and expectations the way you did 200 years ago. But when it comes to death, there is to be no choice. We can live our lives with dignity but we can't end them in dignity. Not saying it's right or wrong one way or another, but it's always been nonsensical to me. |
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Because in euthanasia ending our lives on our terms implicates another person.
That's what makes it complicated. |
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What complicates it are the regulations that would have to be put in place to ensure that the person who is making the decision to end their life is making it of sound mind, without coercion, not under duress or suffering from depression - in other words, you have fully informed consent. |
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.......his suffering is over.
Let us hope that this case will raise awareness and spur the medical community onwards to finding a treatment for this horrendous condition. Rest in peace..... Paralyzed UK man dies after losing assisted-suicide case - CNN.com |
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R.I.P.
At least wherever he is now, he is free to talk, to move... |
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^ It would unquestionably have been better for him, I don't doubt that for a minute. I was mostly thinking about the issue I'd raised in my earlier post, where I pointed out that for Nicklinson's co-petitioner "Martin," even the option of refusing food was denied by the court. But it also seemed clear from the article that "Martin" did not have the support of his family in that aim, and I'm not sure whether he lived at home or not. So perhaps that's the difference. And as far as it goes, I actually found the British court's ruling in "Martin's" case more consistent than the American rulings I cited--if you're going to refuse to grant a patient's death wish (through lethal injection) because carrying it out would implicate the doctor, then I don't see how you can then turn around and say "However, you can ask the doctor to look the other way and do nothing while you preventably starve yourself to death."
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Emotionally, I would love not to have this hesitation--I read some of these cases and it sounds so humane, feels so much like the right thing to do. But philosophically, I'm still a reluctant agnostic. |
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Glad he's at peace.
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Whose moral significance are you referring to above? The individual doctor's? Medical doctors who would be willing participants likely see euthanasia as essentially a moral or amoral choice. If you're talking about the medical profession as a whole, you can then flip the argument on its head and say that the "inflict no harm" principle is trampled when patients's lives are forcibly prolonged at potentially great agony or pain, physical and/or mental, for that patient. I won't even bother going into the details of life-saving measures done to keep my grandmother alive maybe 2, 3 weeks longer - the woman died in great suffering and it's very obvious to me that her medical doctors inflicted harm on her (however well-meaning, though paternalistic they may have been). If you're talking about society's views on the morality of a doctor's participation, then I would say I'm glad that society doesn't make those calls because heaven only knows what the populace at large may prioritize. This is one of those topics that I really, strongly believe that people who have not had a close family friend or relative die in prolonged agony will struggle with a lot more than those of us who saw it first hand. I would have called myself an agnostic like you 10 years ago - not anymore, but that's a result of specific circumstances. |
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I've been thinking about my Grandma a lot as this thread as progressed, as she was and always will be my favorite most cherished person, and I would like to think that if she'd ask me to help her in this way I would have no hesitation and help her to the best of my abilities. I was 26 when she died and remember when an acquaintance asked me if I would cherish the good memories of her instead of her failing health at the end and I said I'd never known my Grandma without pain. As much as I miss her every day I would never call her back to us if I had the choice because almost every inch of her body was in pain for years, and I'm not sitting here using her as an example of why *I* should demand that someone else who I don't know and whose suffering I cannot feel should just buck up and deal. As I said earlier we don't know why she died so quickly (despite the multiple conditions that caused the chronic pain, she wasn't really terminal at that point) but I'd like to think that she went on her own terms. The day she took that turn for the worse we all took turns sitting with her for a while and then the next day I remember walking to buy a lunch and just having this gut feeling that it was finally over and when I got back to my desk my dad was calling to say she had passed. When I was younger I would cry into my pillow imagining how I would ever live without her because I knew even a healthy Grandma won't outlive a healthy grandchild, but when the time came and she passed I didn't shed a tear because I was just so relieved for her suffering to be over. |
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My mom had to make a similar decision for her mother when the time came. It was the toughest thing she'd done, of course, but she knew it was necessary. And my dad had made it as clear as he possibly could, in writing and vocally, that if something happened to him, he did not want to be in a vegetative state and all that sort of thing. He got particularly stubborn towards the end of his life about going to the doctor and everything (but that was also due to other issues that are a whole other story in and of themselves).
I can definitely see what yolland's saying. If I were a doctor, even if I support the idea of euthanasia, even if I know it would be the best thing for the person who is suffering, it's still a really strange thing to have someone ask you to help kill them. And even if you can deal with that, there's always the fear that you'll have angry family members coming at you, too. It'd be a really tough position to be in, I'd imagine. Which is why I always say it comes back to the patient themselves. Ultimately, on this issue, I think we should focus on what the person suffering wants above all else. I know that can be a gray area, too, because of the whole "sound mind" issue and all that, but if this is what they say they want, and they've made that clear in writing and everything, I think their wishes should be respected. |
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But Helen Keller lived her life deaf and blind, and made the most of it. I don't know. I just don't find myself leaning towards supporting these mens' decision. It is understandable, but yet it isn't. |
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I don't have really have an issue with it. They were happy, they found a doctor willing to do it. It's very easy for someone from the other side of the world (general, not attacking you) to say that they shouldn't have done it. Sounds like they were inseparable and the blindness would have meant they would not have been able to see each other again, and were already deaf, which would have made work very hard.
It's a grey area, certainly, but I like that the option is there. |
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Normally i am all for euthanasia but this one is a liitle bit interesting. However, suffering is subjective, we can't judge their anguish. they quite probably would have commited suicide anyway.
I have worked in aged and disability care for 15 years now and have seen some good people go through truly terrible end of life stages. I hope when my time comes someone will do the right thing and max out the morphine for me without worrying about going to jail. |
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I'd rather be born deaf and blind than be born deaf and become blind at middle-age. Imagine the reliance on sight. To have that taken from you would be devastating, so I can appreciate where the twins are coming from.
It sounds like euthanasia laws are working in Benelux and are used sparingly enough. |
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