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It's extremely easy for you to say he should fight on. That's cold comfort to him.
__________________I'm not suggesting doctors be forced into doing it, but I'm sure there are people out there who could end this man's life because he doesn't want to live in hell any more. |
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Stephen Hawking may not be the best example. He's a major physicist with a global reputation and I would imagine considerable means at his disposal. There must be compensations there for his physical condition. I mean there must be, because he is still around. That is not necessarily a typical situation (incidentally his condition typically is terminal, and within quite a short time).
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This condition is very, very different from Terri Schiavo.
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Euthanasia is something that the individual would have to elect after having undergone extensive psychiatric evaluation to determine that he or she is not depressed, coerced, etc. What does this have to do with Stephen Hawking? I don't think that he's calling for assisted suicide.
It's also very patronizing IMO to tell people that they need to fight on. Why not all those kids dying of cancer whose parents make the decision to stop treatment? Should those kids suck it up and continue because it ain't over until you're actually dead? |
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If a physically healthy person wants to get out of this world, they commit suicide.
If someone isn't able to do that, but still has very rational reasons for wanting to be dead, who are we to deny them that? Why should we force them to live the shitty life they don't want to live anymore? |
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I'd like to see this man be cured too, but when will that happen? Are doctors and scientists any where close to curing his disease or paralysis? I haven't seen any reports indicating that they are. So, how long do we have to wait? 10 years? 20 or 30? Let's say Niklinson dies naturally along the way - it would be like all the waiting for nothing. ETA: I just want to say that I think modern medicine seems like a double edged sword. There are ways to keep people alive after paralysis, major brain damage, etc., yet they are trapped in their bodies. 50 years ago, they would've died. Seriously, science has to get moving with stem cell research and the like to get people like Niklinson out of their hellish existence. |
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Locked in syndrome is perhaps the worst thing that could happen to a person. Out of all the heinous afflictions - cancer, AIDS, MND, Parkinsons, Alzheimers etc - locked in is probably the worst because it's usually sudden so there is no time to prepare/adjust. My deepest sympathies go out to this man. I don't think he can be asked to "tough it out" because how could any able bodied person have the slightest comprehension of what he's going through? Also the poster who said he should take his own life - how exactly? Refuse food? The doctors would only feed him intravenously. For extreme (and thankfully very rare) cases such as this, the laws on assisted suicide should be ammended. It is devastating not only for the victim but also their family.
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Life in itself, not quality of life seems to be held above everything else. I often struggle with this in my area of work being a nurse on a respiratory ward. There is very little acceptance of death among the consultants, and a lot of the treatment given to some of our patients who have terminal illnesses and are at the end stage of the illness are very unnecessary, IV medications given 10 times a day, NG tubes inserted, non-invasive ventilation masks that will be required to be worn 18 hours a day that leave sores on your face, unable to communicate properly, and entirely dependent on the mask for breathing. We'll drag people's lives out for another couple of weeks in a barely coherent state with no real plan for attaining a certain standard of life.
I've watched Motor Neurone's disease patients nearly choke to death on a small bit of phlegm. With all our medical advances we have merely sought to extend life into a state of limbo, a half life and we watch the slow torturous degradation of people all the time, repeat admissions getting worse all the time. Before the medical profession even thinks about implementing euthanasia, it needs to look hard at how we actually manage the majority of end of life patients and how to let go better. That said the junior doctors I work with seem more open to idea of less intensive and invasive treatments towards the end of life. I also find DNR orders less than useful, as they may stop a resus attempt being made but up til then it still allows for some pretty invasive and extensive treatment to take place that often borders on the cruel. There has to be more value in a good death well prepared death than a pain filled or vacant life. |
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It is astounding to me that we keep people alive at all costs when their quality of life is nonexistent and their prognosis is death. Dying with dignity and on my own terms is of paramount importance to me. I remember the last weeks and days of my grandmother's life and I hold the medical profession, at least the doctors involved in her care in great contempt for the suffering and needless procedures she endured to get a few more weeks of agony. My other grandmother, who had very clear directives and who had the luck of living in a country where patients' rights are respected, died very peacefully, when her time came. |
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I have mixed feelings about Euthanasia, but I came here to say that DNRs confuse the hell out of me.
My grandmother has horribly bad emphysema and is in and out of the hospital on a fairly regular basis. She has been placed on a respirator multiple times, in spite of her DNR. I thought they weren't allowed to do that? The fact is, I'm glad for it, because she has come back every time and every time has recovered to the point of being able to go home. I hate living in this constant loop of her getting sick/being on the respirator/recovering, but she wants to live and it means I get more time with her, but it get so scared and confused because of the DNR.
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A DNR at least in the UK basically means you will not carry out CPR on a person who has sustained cardiac or respiratory arrest (Though if I remember correctly our policy on it is based off a US one). It only really concerns the moment of death and that you will not attempt to get them back.
So in the case of your grandmother the exacerbation of her emphysema is something that is short term wise easily treatable and she can be returned to her baseline of fitness before the exacerbation occurred, so very aggressive, active treatment will be given. What DNRs generally stop at least here is people being escalated to intensive care. What usually happens on my ward is that they may be DNR but we will escalate the care to ICU levels without actually sending them to ICU, so there will be multiple drips, respirators, strong and horrible medications etc (from my own personal perspective it makes life hell on the ward as I am generally looking after 8 patients and if one requires almost ICU levels of care, the rest tend to get neglected). The worst thing is seeing families come in with loved ones multiple times to the hospital towards the end of life, with the expectation 'is it going to be this time'. Then get sent home again only to repeat it a few weeks later. It is a kind of mental torture, anyway you have my best wishes for your gran. Just in reference to Anitram, we do have the ability to create Advanced Care Plans where a patient can specify what sort of treatment can be given when they reach the end of life, but most do not know their rights regarding this and are generally completely unaware. Doctors never ever raise this with the patient and I have only ever seen one in effect once in 4 years throughout my training and now as a qualified nurse and even then it was disregarded due to some missing documentation. |
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I believe a DNR means they won't use CPR or AED to bring someone back. If she goes in sick and they put her on a respirator, that's different. I suppose she could refuse treatment but that would be different than the DNR. If she went in not breathing and her heart had stopped, *then* the DNR applies.
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Thanks LJT and Lies. That makes a lot of sense and is what my brain was vaguely assigning was the vcr, so I thank you for the knowledge. It actually helps a lot.
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You're right - it ISN'T my business thank G-d almighty..... We're just having a discussion and I'm voicing my opinion - and that DOES matter on a message board, just like yours does, |
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Hi AchtungBono. Always so polite!
I guess my point is just that it's very patronizing to say to someone so desperate to be relieved of their suffering "no, I think you should do this with your life". Your opinion does matter here. But in the real life situation, no one's should matter but the person suffering |
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Gee...thanks.... ![]() Again, you're right - ultimately it is no one's concern what he does. In any case, I don't mean to be patronizing - I do deeply sympathize with him and hope that somehow his suffering will end - hopefully by treatment. |
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Euthanasia for me is one of those impossible issues; when I read about the individual cases and people's suffering it just kills your heart, but at the same time the idea of it actually being legalised creeps the hell out of me. |
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