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Old 03-04-2015, 04:19 PM   #21
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More interesting statistics.

That actually makes sense, though.
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Self love is a special thing isn't it?
well known first step to gayness

and baby girls that get overly excited at their mother's bare breast have a higher tendency to become lesbians
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First surgeon to separate conjoined twins says being gay is a choice because ...

Well ok, I've never told this to anybody before but I'm 80% drunk (and the people I know and actually care about here won't judge me) so why not.

I'm bisexual. I've never told a soul in the world because I've been married for the past 5 years. Even my ex wife doesn't know. She would laugh in my face and then probably call me nasty mean names and make fun of me so there's no point telling her, and there never was because I never had any desire to act on it while we were married (same with women). But now I'm divorced and have to be real, I have a huge crush on a dude. I want to be with another guy. I'm totally cool with it but so many people I know would not be, and it's not any of their business anyways so I feel no need to "come out" or tell anybody at all.

I have been with a guy once in my life. It was purely sexual and I told myself for years that it was just because I was super horny for about six months in college that I would have slept with anybody. But that's not true. I love cock. Straight up. I also love pussy. Hence the "bi" thing and not the "gay" thing.

I always pushed any feelings I had for any dudes aside or dismissed them as "not real". But I've got an enormous crush on a guy I work with. I can't deny it. He's gorgeous, we click like I did with my ex when I first met her. I have no idea if he's gay (although he's certainly eye fucking me every time I walk past his desk so who knows, I may need to fine tune my gaydar). In hind sight I've had a lot of feelings for other guys but always thought to myself "If I was gay I would totally do/date that guy - but I'm totally straight!" and shoved the feelings aside. I chalk it up to immaturity and an inability to accept myself for who I am.

I honestly don't give a fuck now. I'm happier since I at least admitted it to myself, and hey, the pool of people I'm actively looking to sleep with has instantly doubled in size so that's a bonus. But I feel like I really don't care too much. I am what I am and there isn't much point in being embarrassed or trying to suppress it if I have the hots for another dude (which actually happens a lot more than I used to think it did, now that I don't try to dismiss or actively rebel against the feeling).

At no point did I make any kind of choice to be gay, bi, or straight. It doesn't happen. People who say it's a choice are so full of shit it makes me want to slap them. It just is what it is.

You guys are literally the only people in the world who know this other than myself (and the dude I fooled around with in college). Please be gentle, unless we're in the bedroom, in which case (somewhat) rough is totally cool with me
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taking what you posted at face value

I will just say it is too bad you posted it in this thread about Ben Carson, that guy is such a total asshat

it might have fit better in the gay thread
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it might have fit better in the gay thread

...but I'm not gay...
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What do they allow up there in the Canadian military??








Seriously though, really glad for you.
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What do they allow up there in the Canadian military??

The gayest dudes I've ever met were upstanding soldiers.

Master Warrant Officer by day, Queen Fantasia by night

EDIT: I don't really want anyone to be glad or happy for me (although I really do appreciate the sentiment man, thanks a ton), it just is. That's kind of the whole point. To me it feels like announcing on a message board that I have hazel eyes. It's just a part of who I am I'm sure I would feel differently about it if I had experienced any real persecution over it though, especially as a teenager. But I've just come to realize that it's just another facet of who I am, just like the short toe I have on my left foot, and really no more or less important than that. Absolutely nothing about this is a conscious choice, nor has it been at any point in my life.
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hazel eyes?
FUCK YOU!
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Dave, my takeaway from your post was "How the hell is he old enough to have been married for five years?"
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Dave, my takeaway from your post was "How the hell is he old enough to have been married for five years?"
In Alabama he could have been married to his sister for 15 years already.
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But not to another guy.

THEY HAVE THEIR LIMITS, YOU KNOW.
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Dave, my takeaway from your post was "How the hell is he old enough to have been married for five years?"

Got married at 23, I'm 28 now (almost 29).
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Got married at 23, I'm 28 now (almost 29).
This is what I mean. I remember you on here as a kid.

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First surgeon to separate conjoined twins says being gay is a choice because ...

I will say I appreciate your candor and your willingness to share a very real, very human perspective and experience. Coming out -- as gay, bi, whatever -- and in whatever form or forum -- takes real courage. Thank you.
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The gay thread is not for gay people alone Dave, I'm bi just as you but it's still a good thread to be able to talk about your feelings and get examples from other people how their coming out was and how it affected their lives. And there's plenty of straight people posting there too. So you're welcome to come and say hi!
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This is what I mean. I remember you on here as a kid.

Travis and I had our 6th dating anniversary this week. Just so you know.
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On ya Dave
That could be taken "both ways" based on recent revelations.
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This is what I mean. I remember you on here as a kid.

We've been on here a long time. It's been part of my normal daily routine for basically 14 years...crazy.
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