Dude - thank you for not jumping on the "if you don't like NLOTH you're not a real U2 fan and you should leave" bandwagon. I haven't been thrilled with anything that came after POP, but up until ATYCLB, I was such an obsessive U2 super-fan that I drove my friends, family, and band-mates nuts with it.
U2's music became my religion in 1987, though I'd liked them since '84. I've seen them play 15 times (two of those in Dublin in '93, and five of them on the Vertigo Tour). I still think TUF is the greatest album anybody ever created, even above The Joshua Tree and Achtung Baby, which are absolute masterpieces. In fact, one of my biggest dreams would be to see all of the video footage that never made it into the TUF documentary - footage of the band working on "Bad" and "A Sort of Homecoming" and "Indian Summer Sky". If I could get my hands on that material and immerse myself in it, I could die happy.
But, because I am not happy with the three most recent albums, because I am openly critical of them, people say I'm "not a real U2 fan". That's nonsense. Or, they say I don't "get" what the band are trying to do, like it's so different that I can't comprehend it. Again, that's nonsense. TUF is my favorite album. "Surrender", "The Refugee" and "Red Light" are my favorite songs on WAR. And I bridged the gap between TJT and R&H and AB just fine. I thought "The Fly" was incredible from the first moment I heard it. I loved "Numb" and "Lemon" and Zooropa. I loved OST1. And my vanity license plate, which I've had since 1998, still says "U2 POP".
Just because I want more from them than what I feel we have gotten in the last decade doesn't mean I'm not a "real U2 fan". So, I appreciate that your advice to me is to live with the album and give it time to grow, rather than telling people like me to get the hell off of Interference. That is quite cool of you, even if you're still sort of saying that we shouldn't be talking about how we feel about it right now.
So to true U2 fans, not the casual ones, I will tell them to just give the album time. Don't listen 10 times in two days and comment. Let it grow on you. Let yourself really hear it. Let yourself hear the live versions. And if it's still not for you, so be it. But you may find yourselves changing your minds considerably over time.