just wanted to say...
hello 2 U pamela . Thanks for taking on that extra responsibility at your school ( student pop. 450?That sounds nice.I'm used to 1200- it gets too over-crowded imho) You are inspiring a new generation to get involved and care.
Can I free my mind here a bit? don't want to get heavy, but kinda can't help it. I am at such a crossroads it feels, my boys almost grown into men now. I think my responsibility will still be to stay home, but I am looking around for employment options. Two things came up on the weekend, both growth industries here it seems. Geriatric dementia care (via the UPA, another story I want to tell) and youth crisis support work.This is the bit I wanted to get off my chest,it's a bit upsetting, be warned.
A friend brought around the 16 year old boy in her care yesterday for a Christmas visit, she'd told me about him already. His grandparents died recently and he has no family left. She is trying to teach him life skills so he can live independently.It's his legs that have upset me...he self-multilates, a behaviour he has to try to stop. I think I am too soft to cope with that. I feel so much compassion for him, but don't feel I could cope with the crisis moments. Heavy eh? sorry about that.
But it just makes me appreciate the relative stability I've had in my life and I certainly appreciate people like you, who have worked hard to make life better for the kids.
I seem to recall, when I first noticed you here, one of your sons was going overseas. My nephews adore London...I have to get over there somehow for a visit. One of them bought a home there, but I am surprised the other one can stay. I thought he would be home for Christmas( I know his mother hoped so) he has "the gift of the gab" and is now selling real estate over there. I can hardly believe what they have made of their lives from such humble beginnings.( proud aunt stuff)
Anyway I was thinking of you, last day of school ( and when I hear there are fires in those beautiful blue mountains)Enjoy your summer holiday to the utmost.Thanks for the things you do.
Best wishes to you and your family....from me and my family
