Russty Cat
Rock n' Roll Doggie FOB
I was just posting about this on another thread and it just got me to thinking how hard it is to keep secrets from your family or friends.
Luckily most of my friends are people who love me and even if they don't agree with me still treat me with love and respect. As for my family I don't think they would give that same unconditional love, which is so sad.
I feel like I'm leading a double life, because of this. I talk to my family, but can't really tell them what is going on in my life. How I really feel, cuz I know they would be angry and upset that I was going against everything that they or supposedly we believe in. But how long can you live with something eating away at you? Even if you never act on your feelings it still hurts to know that you can't truly be yourself with people who are supposed to love you no matter what.
So I guess I'm confessing something here, cuz I feel like you guys might understand and I'm not doing this to hurt the one I love. I hope that she can understand that its just so hard for me not to say this outloud anyplace. And heck some of ya already know, cuz your not idiots and I'm horrible at hiding secrets.
I'm a married woman with 2 kids who is in love with another woman. I've been married for almost 9 years and I've never felt the love that I have in my heart now, till I met my friend 5 months ago. She is an amazing friend and someone that I feel so blessed to know and have in my life. Its a long distance relationship which is so hard. But I won't ever regret the past few months of love. My husband knows all about us and has accepted it. I think he always knew before we ever married that I was a different person and he accepted that fact when he decided to marry me. We married very young for all the wrong reasons and now we are paying the price for that. But because we have 2 great kids we are doing the best we can to hold things together. Its so hard not being able to be with the one that I love. I do care for my husband still. He is a great guy, an amazing dad, a wonderful friend and a caring husband. I can't imagine not having him in my life. He has taken care of me for the last nine years.
So for now we are one big confused screwed up family. We just try to love and respect each other and be honest about everything. But I still worry what will happen one day when my kids are grown up and move on with their lives, either I will hate myself for staying and living a lie or finally we will throw in the towel and call it a day and move on. It just sucks knowing that, because of a great love someone will eventually get hurt.
Luckily most of my friends are people who love me and even if they don't agree with me still treat me with love and respect. As for my family I don't think they would give that same unconditional love, which is so sad.
I feel like I'm leading a double life, because of this. I talk to my family, but can't really tell them what is going on in my life. How I really feel, cuz I know they would be angry and upset that I was going against everything that they or supposedly we believe in. But how long can you live with something eating away at you? Even if you never act on your feelings it still hurts to know that you can't truly be yourself with people who are supposed to love you no matter what.
So I guess I'm confessing something here, cuz I feel like you guys might understand and I'm not doing this to hurt the one I love. I hope that she can understand that its just so hard for me not to say this outloud anyplace. And heck some of ya already know, cuz your not idiots and I'm horrible at hiding secrets.
I'm a married woman with 2 kids who is in love with another woman. I've been married for almost 9 years and I've never felt the love that I have in my heart now, till I met my friend 5 months ago. She is an amazing friend and someone that I feel so blessed to know and have in my life. Its a long distance relationship which is so hard. But I won't ever regret the past few months of love. My husband knows all about us and has accepted it. I think he always knew before we ever married that I was a different person and he accepted that fact when he decided to marry me. We married very young for all the wrong reasons and now we are paying the price for that. But because we have 2 great kids we are doing the best we can to hold things together. Its so hard not being able to be with the one that I love. I do care for my husband still. He is a great guy, an amazing dad, a wonderful friend and a caring husband. I can't imagine not having him in my life. He has taken care of me for the last nine years.
So for now we are one big confused screwed up family. We just try to love and respect each other and be honest about everything. But I still worry what will happen one day when my kids are grown up and move on with their lives, either I will hate myself for staying and living a lie or finally we will throw in the towel and call it a day and move on. It just sucks knowing that, because of a great love someone will eventually get hurt.