Recent content by scatteroflight

Yes. I think part of my problem is feeling angry with myself for some mistakes I made, and just insecurity and not valuing myself highly enough. So this is something I need to work on too...

Yeah I'm a pretty avid journal writer already...it's a good idea. It's helped me work through more than one problem in the 12 years I've been doing it. Trouble is it can also increase the whole "dwelling" thing and over analyzing, something I'm way too good at. Happily, over the last year I also...

Interesting thread, some things I've wondered about here. I am a year and a few months past the end of a fairly short relationship (four months, though we were sort of unofficially going out for a couple of months before that and had been good friends some time before that). He broke it off (he...

Some interesting comments guys...actually, if anyone wants to comment just a bit more, how about this? Do you think it's a lot more likely that the person who breaks it off will want to continue being friends, than the person who got dumped? In my case, I was the dumpee and he was the dumper...

Don't really know where my seats are (four of us are going). A friend managed to buy them through a friend who knows someone who works for Ticketmaster (that's how it works!!) when they released about 1000 tickets a few days ago--I have no idea where the others went or how they were sold/how...

I only found out a couple of days ago. I've been living in Dublin for three years and seeing u2 in Dublin was one of my dreams for long before that. I already saw them in Vancouver on this tour, how lucky am I! And it's the end of my Dublin experience as I move to London in a few weeks. Could...

Thanks guys...The consensus seems to be that there is no consensus, but that overall, in general, it's not so likely to work out really well. In a way it makes me feel a little better. I had some people tell me "oh yes, you can definitely be friends again" and others say "oh no, no way." So I...

I'd just be interested to hear some opinions on this subject. From my own fairly limited personal experience, and from observing the experiences of people I know, I've kind of come to the conclusion (reluctantly, because I think losing a friend under any circumstances is a terrible thing) that...

I second that, anyone know when they're on sale yet? I heard from an inside source (friend whose brother works for U2) that it would be end of this week, but apparently no official info yet.

Couple more personality turn offs...which are far more important than appearance. I definitely wouldn't have a problem with a guy with a weird mouth if he was a wonderful person! Emotional immaturity. But what is this, exactly? I think some other people mentioned a few important points...having...

Personality-wise: Selfishness (see my other thread ;) ) Thinking they're "the man" (ie. that they're incredibly wonderful and every girl in the universe should be drooling at their feet...particularly when they don't have much going for them!) Arrogance Being boring Saying things which I, as...

Thanks for the various comments guys. I reread what I've written sometimes...here, in my journal, whatever, and sometimes I think I'm a bit self righteous. I probably made it sound like it was all completely his fault. The fact is, he said "sometimes these things just don't work out" and in a...

THis was the second U2 show I've ever seen. First was on the ELevation tour, also in Vancouver. I'm not sure which show I enjoyed more, possibly this one, a little. I'm a bit jealous that Van night 1 got Gloria and Bad, especially Gloria, but as far as Gloria, I'm really just delighted that...

In the past year, at least a couple of people of both genders have said something to me like "guys think some of the time with their brains and the rest of the time with other parts of their bodies." Sorry...don't want to turn this into a guy-slagging session, but I did think it was an...

It's almost four and a half years since I registered :ohmy: I dunno...I definitely spent too much time on the Internet and especially here at certain points in my life...but I miss that part of my life a bit...I'm getting nostalgic which probably means I'm getting OLD...how much has my life...