Jive Turkey
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I prefer the working environment of Sterling Cooper
You have no way of knowing if this was consenual or not. Yes, I understand he's the boss & the celebrity here, but you can't make judgement calls without knowing all the facts, and we never will.
Just watched Letterman talk about what happened on his show.
I cringed when the audience laughed throughout the whole thing. I mean, really???
yes being unfaithful to his longtime partner(now wife) was wrong. But being blackmailed and forced to admit it to the world is worse.
well he was, you know, making jokes and stuff
I know that he made some jokes but he was trying to be serious at some parts and people were laughing.
And listen people make mistakes. Noone is perfect. I swear some people act all high and mighty like they've never made bad decisions in their life.
I cringed when the audience laughed throughout the whole thing. I mean, really???
Legal Experts Discuss Possible Sexual Harrassment Claims
"The problem for Worldwide Pants and Letterman is that ... it's quite possible that there are employees who were not aware that David Letterman was engaged in sexual behavior with ... staff members and, under sexual harassment law, there is a claim for sexual harassment, somebody can come forward and say. 'The boss was sleeping with other employees, they got favors and advantages that I didn't get.' They got to appear on the show, perhaps, for example. Got additional payments for that.
"So, this is why every company in the United States has a policy that an employer should not be having sexual relations with a subordinate, because it has the potential to create a hostile work environment. "
I cringed when the audience laughed throughout the whole thing. I mean, really???
Letterman's behavior nothing to laugh at
David Letterman crossed a line he shouldn't have, and it isn't funny.
The TV audience laughed after Letterman, with rubber-faced expression, admitted he "had sex with women who work for me on the show."
"My response to that is, 'Yes, I have,' " deadpanned Letterman.
The audience even clapped.
But let's stop laughing.
Some may say the rules of professionalism are different in the entertainment industry, where costars frequently fall in love with their on-screen mates or the folks behind the camera, but that excuse doesn't cut it here.
Letterman is the chairman and the man who owns the company that produces his show. He's a boss. And bosses are asking for bottom-line trouble when they have sex with their subordinates.
These unnamed employees worked "for" Letterman, not just "with" him.
It's creepy -- a word Letterman himself used with disturbing effect as he described the extortion plot hatched against him -- when bosses bed their employees. After Letterman testified about the blackmail attempt to a New York grand jury, a CBS employee was arrested and charged this week with attempting to extort $2 million from the comedian. He pleaded not guilty.
Business undermined
Even if Letterman had consensual relationships with subordinates, his behavior raises several issues.
Whether he's a celebrity or not, it remains a situation in which a person has a powerful position over somebody at the workplace and raises the question of whether that position is being leveraged for sex.
Deborah Gordon, a local attorney who specializes in sex discrimination and harassment cases, was stunned by Letterman's on-screen demeanor.
"He makes light of it -- like what's the thing that I've done that is so creepy? I had sex with women who work for me. Ha. Ha. Ha. No big deal," Gordon said.
The fact that Letterman admitted he had sex with multiple women in the workplace "sends up a warning signal," Gordon said. It suggests a pattern of behavior and hints of a workplace where such affairs with the boss might be part of the expected job duties.
It undermines the whole operation. It raises questions of whether women at Letterman's office are being hired with sex in mind, and if there are repercussions for refusing an advance or after an affair has run its course.
At press time, no women had come forward claiming they suffered sexual harassment from Letterman. And legal experts say sexual advances have to be unwelcome to support a lawsuit. But having sex with subordinates is grounds for dismissal in corporate America, and there are bountiful reasons why companies harp on management to keep sexual affairs out of the office.
Consider this: When an employee brought a sexual harassment suit against Isiah Thomas, the former Detroit Pistons basketball star who was an executive with the New York Knicks, a New York jury returned an $11.6-million verdict against the Knicks' parent organization.
Arrogance on display
Letterman's viewers are programmed to laugh at what he says.
But in his attempt at humor, Gordon saw the spin.
"There is a lot of arrogance in these situations, and he seemed to have a very arrogant attitude -- like naturally I have sex with anybody in the job, like who doesn't," Gordon said. "That I found very offensive."
The owner of Worldwide Pants Inc. got caught with his pants down, and it's going to haunt him personally and professionally for some time to come.
"There is a lot of arrogance in these situations, and he seemed to have a very arrogant attitude -- like naturally I have sex with anybody in the job, like who doesn't," Gordon said. "That I found very offensive."
I don't agree with that at all. I thought Letterman's tone seemed pretty serious when admitting to the sexual relationships - he certainly didn't seem to be flippant or relaxed about it. To me, it seemed that he was a bit confused and annoyed by the audience's laughter.
I think that what JiveTurkey and Lila said is true, it was a bizarre, unexpected confession, and in that setting, people are conditioned to laugh, and maybe for a while into it thought that Dave was doing a comedy bit.i still cringe thinking of the audience laughing...it's just staggering.
Who the hell would sleep with Dave Letterman without charging him money? He looks like Yoda's balls.
i still cringe thinking of the audience laughing...it's just staggering.
I think that what JiveTurkey and Lila said is true, it was a bizarre, unexpected confession, and in that setting, people are conditioned to laugh, and maybe for a while into it thought that Dave was doing a comedy bit.
Who the hell would sleep with Dave Letterman without charging him money? He looks like Yoda's balls.